Concerning BDSM i realised lately that i started turning into a strict dominant who just wants to be the alpha male , the thing is iamn't talking about a sexual relationship here iam talking about a way of living , i believe that every person can be dominant or submissive at a certain situation and against a certain person it is how dominant or how submissive are you that decides the fate of the encounter, and lately i have been asking for domination and only domination so i started acting like it and i turned into a different person, however i still carry the firm belief that degrading or belittling isn't how you become a dominant one, but forcing the feel of respect and safety toward you is what makes a person really submit to you.
So i started to follow my instincts and by acting naturally i find myself getting more confident/alpha by everyday.
As a sidenote i want to mention that iamn't the degrading type (although iam up for getting dominantly kinky in sex if that was my partner's will) however iam more of a leader type, to simplify it, Iam like your father or older brother and your everything , you can reach up to me whenever you need i will be there and you can always count on me so i'm expecting your total submission and your full obedience .
As a metaphor if you are with me you are free but iam still holding your leash. Not into dog play though just a metaphor
I stumbled upon this site by chance (glad that i did !) and iam looking for a good submissive girl who is willing to let me "lead" her way.
My BDSMtest results
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Primal (Hunter)
98% Dominant
96% Master/Mistress
77% Voyeur
74% Daddy/Mommy
74% Owner
59% Degrader
58% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
51% Exhibitionist
48% Vanilla
47% Ageplayer
39% Switch
37% Non-monogamist
26% Rigger
3% Submissive
2% Primal (Prey)
2% Brat
1% Boy/Girl
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Masochist
0% Pet