I've never been good at these about me things. Whats to say? I'm 27. I like...colors. Textiles. Textures. In my free time to bake, read, and paint. Currently I'm traveling North America working as a crew member on a musical tour. I'm a professional artist and prop-maker, as well as a hobbyist writer who loves to learn new things. Which I suppose is why I am here, because I've been interested in the BDSM community and a dom/sub partnership for a few years now, but I don't know anyone irl to talk about and explore it with.
I am open-minded and willing to try almost anything at least once. I'm a big believer in honest and open communication. Most of the time, it's really not a big deal, and I'm not interesting in having conflicts that can't be resolved with a conversation.
I am not actively seeking a dom/partner, but I also wouldn't turn one down if I found someone that I trusted and bonded with. I'm past the age where I don't want to be told what to do and I would die for someone to tell me what to do. I don't think I'd call myself a little but the DDLG dynamic is undeniably appealing for me because of that caretaking aspect. Telling men twice my age what to do is currently half of what do for a living and I love it, I love giving orders to these men if only because its a situation I have never been in before, but please for fucks sake give me a break. I do enough, make good decisions for me and tell me to go do something fun.
I'm looking to learn and meet other subs and doms to better figure out what I'm looking for, and maybe find a dom who gives me what I need and wants what I have to give.
The draw of a dom/sub relationship to me is the trust and mutual respect between both parties. I would like a Dom who is my partner, not my owner (outside of consensual scenes), and as partners we own each other. I'm willing to surrender control, but only to someone I trust will take care of me. I want to never have to say no to my Dom because I know my Dom would never tell me to do something I couldn't. Let's face it, as much as I hate being told what to do... god do I love being told what to do. What a relief, honestly.
Switch 100%
Submissive 96%
Voyeur 95%
Brat 90%
Experimentalist 87%
Dominant 86%
Rope Bunny 86%
Primal (Prey) 70%
Masochist 59%
Vanilla 58%
Brat Tamer 58%
Non-monogamist 55%
Master/Mistress52%
Primal (Hunter) 48%
Degrader 45%
Owner 45%
Pet 42%
Rigger 37%
Sadist 34%
Daddy/Mommy 26%
Boy/Girl 25%
Exhibitionist20%
Slave 19%
Degradee 14%
Ageplayer 13%
Scat, needles, emotional degradation, anything that leaves permanent marks hence the emotional degradation, and minors (should go without saying). The rest I'm still figuring out.