I've never been good at these about me things. Whats to say? I'm 26. I like...colors. Textiles. I like to bake, read, paint. I'm a professional artist and prop-maker, as well as a hobbyist writer who loves to learn new things. Which I suppose is why I am here, because I've been interested in the BDSM community and a dom/sub partnership for a few years now, but I don't know anyone irl to talk about and explore it with.
I am open-minded, and willing to try almost anything at least once. I'm a big believer in honest and open communication.
I am not actively seeking a dom/partner, but I also wouldn't turn one down if I found someone that I trusted and bonded with.
I've done my fair share of reading/watching/studying BDSM and dom/sub material, but joining this site is the most involved I've ever been in it myself. I'm looking to learn and meet other subs and doms to better figure out what I'm looking for, and maybe find a dom who gives me what I need and wants what I have to give.
The draw of a dom/sub relationship to me is the trust and mutual respect between both parties. I would like a Dom who is my partner, not my owner, and as partners we own each other. I'm willing to surrender control, but only to someone I trust will take care of me. I want to never have to say no to my Dom because I know my Dom would never tell me to do something I couldn't. Let's face it, as much as I hate being told what to do... god do I love being told what to do. What a relief, honestly.
I like the idea of being a switch one day, but first I want to be a sub to make sure I understand how to take care of one.
Switch 100%
Submissive 96%
Voyeur 95%
Brat 90%
Experimentalist 87%
Dominant 86%
Rope Bunny 86%
Primal (Prey) 70%
Masochist 59%
Vanilla 58%
Brat Tamer 58%
Non-monogamist 55%
Master/Mistress52%
Primal (Hunter) 48%
Degrader 45%
Owner 45%
Pet 42%
Rigger 37%
Sadist 34%
Daddy/Mommy 26%
Boy/Girl 25%
Exhibitionist20%
Slave 19%
Degradee 14%
Ageplayer 13%
Scat, needles, emotional degradation, anything that leaves permanent marks, minors (should go without saying). The rest I'm still figuring out.