Well first I would say I am not a mean man , that not my nature, but that what draws me to this lifestyle, I have to get out of my comfort zone a lot. I am a dom and could never be a sub, I am straight and I have had two sub's that I enjoyed playing with, but now I don't have one and I am actively looking for a young untrained woman to train myself.
I have been in and out of this a few times but I'm taking it serious this time and putting in the work.
As a dom and only dabbling in it I don't know yet what my limits are.
What new is how hard it is to find a new sub.