VanityVixen​{N/A}

dom female

I admit I’m a sapiosexual.
Intelligence is astronomically sexy & without mental stimulation, I become remarkably disengaged.

Intelligence aside, I can also be pretty-vain. I tend to enjoy the more beautiful people who also take pride in their appearance. I live life on my own accord—in both the fast & slow lanes—& enjoy meeting new people while creating new experiences. My 6 pets which includes 3 ferrets & 1 sugar bear are my pride & joy.

Please allow Me to reintroduce Myself…

I’m Goddess Vanity, but I am not your Goddess. That title is reserved for My special simp. Prefer to show deference? you, boy, may address Me as “Ma’am.”

I’m a traditional & cerebral Goddess who believes in Vetting, Negotiation, Consent, & Boundaries. I don’t entertain insta dynamics or instant gratification. 

I won’t dare attempt to hide My sadism. While I’m an overall Sadist, My style flows into Emotional Sadism. My favorite dynamic as a Goddess taught Me I can’t live without humiliation & degradation. 

I gravitate towards the slave boys, the ones who understand they need guidance & structure 24/7. Oh, how I adore the grown ass adult, mature, alpha, highly educated & intellectual simp who craves to serve beneath a younger, powerful Woman because he knows exactly where he belongs. 

My submissive is an extension & reflection of Me. I’m not for the faint of heart or inexperienced. I have high standards & expectations, but I also give just as much as I require—if not more.

Don’t allow My spiciness prove intimidating. While I’m a mean-ass, strict Goddess who runs Her Queendomme like boot camp, I love to laugh & smile. My Queendomme is filled with fun once We’ve established a solid foundation. I take My time with learning My prospective simp before I claim & collar him. 

Compatibility is everything. 

Heads Up…
My Queendomme doesn’t permit romance, anal play, men in any form of Women’s clothing—including stockings & panties, pegging, cuckolding, sissification, forced-bi, bisexuality, age play, effeminate men, typos, laziness, younger men, any form of sharing, sex, or sexual contact. Nor will My Queendomme ever prioritize or concern Herself with phallic matters…unless We’re discussing chastity cages or CBT.

simps…
This is your one & only warning…I HATE begging. Don’t come at Me with that pathetic behavior. I will shame you. I don’t care about your feelings. Authentic submissives know how to regulate themselves properly. Trifling isn’t a good look on anyone.

Don’t waste My time or yours…
*I am NOT here for romance, marriage, or a vanilla relationship. I will NOT fall in love with you. 

*I’m only into heterosexual men who are only into biological Women. 

*I don’t play with couples. Or anyone younger than 38. 

*I am not poly, nor do I engage with anyone poly. We can be friends but never anything more. I treasure the beauty & stability of monogamy. 

*If We converse regularly, don’t assume I owe you a collar.  

*I do NOT like sissy men. Hard limit ALL DAY.

*I do NOT shame the simp married to a vanilla. 

*No one is ever worth Me lowering My standards.  

*My personality type is Architect (INTJ)

* == Results from bdsmtest.org: ==

100% Brat tamer
100% Masochist
100% Master/Mistress
100% Primal (Hunter)
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Switch
100% Degrader
96% Rope bunny
96% Primal (Prey)
93% Dominant
85% Brat
85% Submissive
80% Degradee
59% Slave
50% Owner
42% Voyeur
32% Experimentalist
19% Pet
17% Vanilla
14% Exhibitionist
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Little
0% Non-monogamist 

Younger men. Bisexual men. Heteroflexible men. Effeminate men. Men on the down-low. Men in panties. Men in Women’s clothing. Non-monogamy. Marriage. Switching/Switch dynamics. Insta subs. Anything illegal. Anything relating to the bathroom. Age play. Animals. Permanent scarring. Multiple partners (including couples). Sharing. Hypnosis. Stretching—fisting of any kind. Sissification. Bisexual men. Forced bi. Polyamory. Cuckolding. Anal training. Ass play. ABDL. Poor grammar. Illiterate men. Younger men. Littles. Insecure men. Romance. Men who are incapable of communicating/expressing themselves effectively. 

*I shouldn’t have to include this, but it’s come up on multiple occasions…I’m not here to procreate. 

Life as a Kinkster—in this controlled chaos—continues to be a wild-ass ride. I continue to grow as a Sadist & Goddess, & expand My BDSM knowledge under My Mentor who is a bad ass, seasoned Sadist & Master. 
I’m also proud to run My own org for the BIPOC Kinksters.  

simps, submissives…
I have many a boy-toy & simp pleading for My attention & Domminance on a regular basis. My Queendomme is the military of Kink…only the strong survive. I don’t have time for boys who lack education, a stable career & life, as well as proper etiquette. I am a Goddess, not a babysitter. Step to Me correctly.

boys, listen. I have zero desire to entertain you romantically, sexually, or in a long term vanilla relationship. I am not the One. I am strictly here for the BDSM. 

I say what I mean, & I mean what I say. Zero exceptions.

Meanwhile…
I am fully focused on living & enjoying My life—authentically, unapologetically, unrepentantly, & uncaged.