VanityVixen

switch female

I admit I’m a sapiosexual.
Intelligence is astronomically sexy & without mental stimulation, I become remarkably disengaged.

Intelligence aside, I can also be pretty-vain. I tend to enjoy the more beautiful people who also take pride in their appearance. I live life on my own accord—in both the fast & slow lanes—& enjoy meeting new people while creating new experiences. My 6 pets which includes 3 ferrets & 1 sugar bear are my pride & joy.

I’m Vanity, the Kinkster whose duality can best be described as the “Dominant & slave Goddess.”
Please don’t be confused. Although I present as a sadistic & mean Goddess, I am also a cerebral, educated, docious, yet playful & giddy slave who thrives with structure. 

My Goddess & my slave coexist peacefully & blissfully, never switching wires.
My identities both thoroughly enjoy TPE as BDSM isn’t the same without that essential component.

Dominance & submission are both invaluable & precious gifts. Respect them.

Dominance & submission are never given. They must always be earned. 

Don’t waste my time or yours…
*I’m only into heterosexual men who are only into biological women.

*I’m every bit of demisexual. 

*I don’t play with couples. Or anyone younger than 38. 

*I am not poly, nor do I engage with anyone poly. We can be friends but never anything more. I treasure the beauty & stability of monogamy. 

*If we converse regularly, don’t assume I owe you submission, or a collar. 

*I am not a sister-submissive nor do I share my Master.

*I do NOT submit to Switches. That’s a hard limit all day. 

*I do NOT like sissy men. Hard limit ALL DAY.

*No one is ever worth me lowering my standards.  

*My personality type is Architect (INTJ)

* == Results from bdsmtest.org: ==

100% Brat tamer
100% Masochist
100% Master/Mistress
100% Primal (Hunter)
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Switch
100% Degrader
96% Rope bunny
96% Primal (Prey)
93% Dominant
85% Brat
85% Submissive
80% Degradee
59% Slave
50% Owner
42% Voyeur
32% Experimentalist
19% Pet
17% Vanilla
14% Exhibitionist
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Little
0% Non-monogamist 

Younger men. Bisexual men. Heteroflexible men. Effeminate men. Men on the down-low. Bedroom only Doms. Doms younger than 40. Non-monogamy. Daddy Doms. Pleasure Doms. DDlg. “Daddy” honorifics. Switching/Switch dynamics. Switches as Doms. Doms with submissive tendencies. Insta Doms/subs. Anything illegal. Anything relating to the bathroom. Age play. Animals. Permanent scarring. Multiple partners (including couples). Sharing. Hypnosis. Stretching—fisting of any kind. Sissification. Bisexual men. Forced bi. Polyamory. Cuckolding. Anal training. Ass play. ABDL. Poor grammar. Illiterate men. Younger men. Littles. Tops disguised as Doms. Insecure men. Men who are incapable of communicating/expressing themselves effectively. 

*I shouldn’t have to include this, but it’s come up on multiple occasions…I’m not here to procreate. 

Life as a Kinkster—in this controlled chaos—continues to be a wild-ass ride. I continue to grow as a submissive, Sadist, & Goddess, & expand my BDSM knowledge under my Mentor who is a bad ass, seasoned Sadist & Master. 
I’m also proud to run my own org for the BIPOC Kinksters.  

simps, submissives…
I have many a boy-toy & simp begging for My attention & Domminance on a regular basis. My Queendomme is the military of Kink…only the strong survive. I don’t have time for boys who lack education, a stable career & life, as well as proper etiquette. I am a Goddess, not a babysitter. Step to Me correctly.

she continues to yearn for a Master to which she can genuinely submit, but she practices patience in waiting for the right One. Settling for less isn’t an option.

Meanwhile…
I am fully focused on living & enjoying my life—authentically, unapologetically, unrepentantly, & uncaged.