I’m Will. I’m 34. I love singing, and playing guitar and ukulele. I have a degree in music and I work with recovering addicts (highly rewarding work imho). Empathy is both my superpower and my kryptonite. The world has been tough on me, as I imagine it has been for most of us, but that has shaped me into someone I’m genuinely proud to be. I love sci-fi, fantasy, classical music, theater, classic novels, history, and etymology (words, not bugs), archeology, Oxford commas, and rhetoric. I never say something in 2 or 3 words when I could use 2 or 3 hundred. In short, a nerd. I’m 5’11” and about 240 lbs, definitely a BHM so if you’re only interested in “fit” guys, kindly move on.
I’m seeking an online-only MD/lb connection with the possibility of IRL meet-ups. Ideally, Mommy would be a bit older and wiser with more experience, but I’m also open to exploring with a new or younger Domme as well, possibly with guidance from a mentor. My ideal Mommy is equal parts caregiver, mentor, cheerleader and play partner. She’s flexible, patient, supportive and nurturing. I’m not seeking a disciplinarian, although I do hope for rules. I’m on Central time, so being within 1-2 time zones of me would be best.
***Important note*** I’m a SA survivor in recovery. I attend weekly 12 step recovery meetings as well as a step study. These, along with church, are integral parts of my healing process and may not be interfered with. Those times are sacred to me, and thus, out-of-bounds for any and all distractions, including Mommy. I hope you can understand.
I’ve been involved in BDSM for about 5 years now. I strongly suspect that it’s a response to a good deal of trauma both in my childhood and all through my 20’s. I’ve spent most of that time as a Dominant, typically as a DaddyDom, but y’all, I’m tired. There’s a submissive middle just dying to break out and let Mommy nurture, grow, protect and praise me just the way I used to do as a Daddy. I long for that soft strength to envelop me and make me feel safe and content. I’m so eager to earn a genuine, heartfelt, “Good boy!” I ache to be Mommy’s pride and joy.
As I said, I have quite a bit of experience as a Dom, and am super-comfortable switching, in fact I’d quite enjoy the prospect, but that being said, my main focus right now is to explore submission. If you are a switch, bonus points. If not, that is more then fine with me, as switching is not one of my priorities at this time.
Clearly I’m still in the discovery phase, but my known kinks are as follows:
Praise, worship (pussy, breast, body, feet, anything), facesitting, oral (giving and receiving), bondage, gentle femdomme, rules/punishments/rewards, orgasm control, JOI, age play (I’m a middle about 9-13)
Kinks I’ve not explored but am eager to try:
Pegging, pet play, wax, milking, light impact play
Hard Limits:
ABDL, Blood, Scat, Piss, CBT, Degradation, Humiliation, Denial, Chastity, FinDomme
Soft limits (willing to consider situationally after trust has been established):
CNC, TPE, latex, MMF