arlene
masochist female

Oklahoma, United States
About me
Prepped. Love outdoors.  Agriculture.  Traveler.  Outgoing. Rural.  Adventurous.  Music. I love to cook.  Health conscious.  Army veteran.  Lust for life that I live to the fullest. I like what appeals to me.
BDSM and me
Masochist. Voyeur.  Servant/slave.  Not a “starter” slave — Not a starter masochist either.   The Dom/Master for me must be HETEROSEXUAL, and can be Sadistic (not a tyrant).  Though not required, I prefer he aspire to have a dungeon or BDSM establishment/business and that he LIVES this lifestyle because I refuse to live a double life pretending to be vanilla when I am not.
Limits

BOUNDARIES:  
1.  NO Vanilla.  
2.   No swingers -  I’m straight up BDSM committed to this life style.  But I do like BDSM couples.  
3.  No switch.  
4. Hard limits —> No homosexual male, No bisexual male, or No male who has sexually partook or played with another man.  
5.  Hard limit —>  No Mandingo in my scene.  I have particular preference in certain type of men with a certain characteristic/heritage.  Read between the lines.
6. Virtual (online) play maybe fun sometimes, but it’s not a relationship builder that solidifies my servitude.  My ancestral enslaved mothers did not have online Master, and neither shall I.  
7.  I can not refer to a Dom as “Master”, when he looks up to another as his Master.  
8. No permanent injuries/disfigurement.

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Update date
May 10, 2024
Member since
Jun 30, 2021
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