arlene

Army veteran.  Never had children. Practical, love outdoors, and health-conscious.  Sentimental & thoughtful.  

Also a prepper: a prepared slave type of prepper. I keep up with inventory, stock food, water, medicine, propane for the generator, etc..  — everything I can think of. That way, a Master doesn’t have to worry about any of that. It’s my job to make sure everything’s ready so a Master can focus on other things.

Masochist. Voyeur. Servant/slave (traditional), but I’m not slavish. Not a “starter” slave — and not a starter masochist either. Poly friendly.  Due to safety concerns, I prefer Dom with some experience. 

IMPORTANT:

Only had 4 Masters in my life, but I’ve had many Doms. Difference for me is simple: A Dom (who is not Master) is someone I casually play with — no commitment. A Master = real long-term commitment and loyalty. So if Dom just want to play, he should say that. After all, I’m a masochist with peculiarities.  If Dom looking for commitment, he should be clear about his mission & vision.

1. No switching. I’m a strict bottom and don’t switch. Ive done race play as a submissive to both genders, but I struggle with “reverse race play”.   Reverse race play is situation when a husband, after topping both me and his wife, suddenly wants me to become dominant with her.   I’m not wired to switch like that. 

2. No permanent injuries or disfigurement.

3. No tickling torture.

1.  Learning naturopathy.