If you chose to read my full profile, you will understand who I am:
♦️ Initially, I’ll focus on getting to know you better to ensure we’re a good fit and that our time is well spent.
♦️ While the past may tempt you to make assumptions, I expect you to refrain from doing so about me or my dynamics. Instead, ask for my reasoning before drawing conclusions. Understand that many misunderstandings arise from others' emotional triggers, not my intentions. I consistently respect the emotions of others, but I also demand clear and honest communication. Remember, healthy communication and relationships require dedicated effort and commitment from all parties involved.
♦️ There is no reason for either of us to raise our voices to the point of yelling to convey a message, unless it’s part of our roleplay or consensual within our dynamic. If we cannot communicate with mutual respect, then whatever needs to be said should remain unspoken. Negative or triggering communication has no place in our interactions.
♦️ I tend to be very specific and literal in our discussions to build a solid foundation for our conversations. Once we have a clearer understanding of each other's personalities and thought processes, it becomes easier to navigate boundaries around humor and what’s acceptable. I don’t expect anyone to think or react like I do, so I’ll ask questions to clarify anything I find unclear.
♦️ While I appreciate having fun and know when to lighten the mood, I have consciously chosen to embrace a dominant role in all aspects of my life. This means I take on the responsibility of leading myself and others with intention. As a leader, I believe in earning respect through my actions and integrity rather than demanding it.
I set a standard of respect that I expect to see reflected in those I work with. This standard involves open communication, accountability, and a commitment to mutual growth. I aim to create an environment where everyone feels valued and empowered to contribute. By fostering healthy dynamics and encouraging transparency, I hope to build relationships that are not only productive but also enriching for all involved. My leadership style is rooted in collaboration, ensuring that each person’s voice is heard and respected, and that we work together towards common goals.
♦️ In any 24/7 alternative lifestyle dynamic I engage in, I integrate the creative concepts of low, medium, and high protocols into our interactions. This approach is tailored to the emotional landscape and feelings of everyone involved, ensuring that our dynamics are respectful and attuned to each person's needs. By adjusting protocols accordingly, I aim to foster a supportive environment where everyone can thrive and feel secure in their roles.
♦️ I am open-minded and willing to respectfully explore new interests. If you’d like to engage in something together, please share the details about what intrigues you. Providing information such as who is involved, what the focus is, when and where it would take place, why it interests you, and how you envision it will help me understand your perspective better. From there, we can continue the conversation.
♦️ I will share photos of myself, including my face, only when I fully trust you and we meet in person. I value my public image and future opportunities, so I expect our interactions to remain private and confidential
♦️ I am open to respectfully negotiating any aspect of a relationship style you may be interested in, but that does not mean I will settle for anything. I firmly believe that dominance should never be forced on anyone without the clear and respectful consent of all parties involved. Similarly, submission should not be imposed without mutual agreement.
I’ve often witnessed submissive individuals acting in a submissive manner without ensuring that their actions are consensual. For example, going into littlespace without discussing the context and key factors—who, what, where, why, and how—can undermine the foundation of respect we need. I’ve also encountered situations where individuals go nonverbal as a form of play without considering the impact on others, leading to misunderstandings and frustration.
I am not a mind reader, even though I’m empathic and draw on psychological insights. This issue extends beyond one type of submission; I have seen similar behaviors across various submissive roles, including slaves and pets. Such actions are not acceptable and will not be tolerated in any form. Respectful communication and consent are paramount.
♦️ Lastly, don’t forget to read my blogs and writings for deeper insights
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If you’re interested in exploring an M/s or DDlg dynamic, please be prepared to have an open conversation about your concerns, fears, interests, likes, and dislikes. My aim is to create an enjoyable experience for both of us, and understanding your perspective is crucial for a safe and satisfying dynamic
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Seeking a Submissive Partner Who Has These Qualities:
1️⃣. Open Communication: Willing to discuss concerns, fears, interests, likes, and dislikes openly.
2️⃣. Commitment to Consent: Understands the importance of clear, mutual consent in all dynamics.
3️⃣. Vulnerability: Embraces vulnerability and expresses thoughts and feelings courageously.
4️⃣. Respect for Boundaries: Respects established boundaries and engages in healthy communication.
5️⃣. Willingness to Learn: Open-minded and eager to explore new interests within the dynamic.
6️⃣. Emotional Awareness: Recognizes the impact of emotional triggers and strives for understanding.
7️⃣. Desire for Growth: Committed to personal and relational growth within the dynamic.
8️⃣. Loyalty: Demonstrates dedication and loyalty to the dynamic and to me as your Master.
9️⃣. Adaptability: Flexible and open to adjusting to different protocols and situations.
1️⃣0️⃣. Self-Awareness: Understands personal limits and communicates them clearly.
1️⃣1️⃣. Confidence: Displays confidence in expressing desires and boundaries.
1️⃣2️⃣. Respectfulness: Treats me and others with respect, fostering a positive environment.
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My approach to BDSM is grounded in trust, consent, and clear communication. I believe that both dominance and submission should always be consensual and never forced. It’s essential to create a safe environment where all parties feel comfortable expressing their desires and boundaries.
I emphasize the importance of discussing context before engaging in any specific practices. This includes understanding each other’s perspectives and negotiating relationship styles openly. My goal is to foster an environment conducive to exploration and growth while upholding mutual respect.
I’m creative and enjoy experimenting in all aspects of kink. If I message you, it’s because I believe we are a good fit, whether online or in real life.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Master/Mistress
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Degrader
98% Dominant
98% Owner
90% Voyeur
86% Daddy/Mommy
79% Brat tamer
73% Primal (Hunter)
66% Experimentalist
52% Non-monogamist
44% Switch
12% Vanilla
11% Rope bunny
11% Submissive
8% Exhibitionist
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Masochist
0% Boy/Girl
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
People who don’t read my profile
I’m open to discussing both soft and hard limits to ensure a clear understanding of our dynamics.