Not in a position to pursue a relationship at this time. But will be more honest than anyone on this site, if anyone is interested.
I've had submissive desires since I had sexual desires. Hid them 99% of my life. I hope to explore them some day but finding the right partner is hard enough in the vanilla world, exponentially harder in the BDSM world.
Would need to stay monogamous, although I do have some fantasies about a female showing off her toy to another female, but no dudes. Only real limits are things that involve blood or feces. Safewords and limits are for role players. I would like to find someone I trust and just let them determine my limits.