I’m a 41 year old male, working in finance in NYC. I’m happily married and my wife knows I’m on this site. Our rules permit unlimited online play, and with her explicit permission, real life play as well.
I enjoy making connections with online subs that couple intellect and sexuality.
I can be a controlling and demanding Dom with high expectations and a low tolerance for disobedience.
I can also be sweet, caring, and even vulnerable, though it takes some time to see that side of me.
My favorite kind of play is orgasm denial and control. I appreciate that it takes some time to achieve that level of trust and would only want to start a dialogue with someone who understands that as well. Said another way, I’m not going to tell you how to edge yourself and otherwise playfully torment you until I understand you better as a person. What makes you tick? What turns you on? What turns you off?
Nothing illegal. No incestual play or scat.