I think I shall start here by sharing a bit of myself with you, yes you, who are reading this silly thing at the moment.
I am, by nature, quite primal. I like to feel my way through a scene. Loving the reactions that I provoke. Recently I have decided to take a deep, hard look at my dominant side and have a good idea of what I want. A service submissive, prey, rope bottom, and masochist. I do enjoy pushing people's envelopes, but do not desire to cross any boundaries.
***I require someone who can communicate clearly, has boundaries, and wants to serve.***
I am a responsible dad, my son comes first. Therefore, I don't make it out much on the weekends, because that is when we get to spend our time together. That is not to say that I won't make time for someone else.
Let's see where was I at? Oh yeah, I quit altering my brains chemistry with drugs and alcohol over fifteen years ago. It's not that I wanted to quit these things (I really do love my vices) but they were killing me, some faster than others. Which leaves me to enjoy other vices....it also means that a potential partner doesn't have to worry about how many I've had, or if I'm too far gone to play. I also don't judge other people for being able to modify their brain chemistry in a responsible manner. I was the one with the problem, but I'm feeling much better now.
If you're curious, intrigued, or even just bored and want someone to chat with shoot me a message. I'm not scary...unless you ask me to do that sort of thing.
BDSM and me...lolol sounds like the title of a "how to" book on learning how to discover yourself in BDSM. That makes me chuckle.
My very first "fetish" would have to be wrestling/primal play. I love to feel the physical give and take, the ebb and flow of the power exchange involved in the strength, strategy, and raw emotion involved in this sort of play.