Presentlypresent
dom male

Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Age
51
Relationship status
Single
About me
I think I shall start here by sharing a bit of myself with you, yes you, who are reading this silly thing at the moment.

I am, by nature, quite primal. I like to feel my way through a scene. Loving the reactions that I provoke. Recently I have decided to take a deep, hard look at my dominant side and have a good idea of what I want. A service submissive, prey, rope bottom, and masochist. I do enjoy pushing people's envelopes, but do not desire to cross any boundaries.

***I require someone who can communicate clearly, has boundaries, and wants to serve.***

I am a responsible dad, my son comes first. Therefore, I don't make it out much on the weekends, because that is when we get to spend our time together. That is not to say that I won't make time for someone else.

Let's see where was I at? Oh yeah, I quit altering my brains chemistry with drugs and alcohol over fifteen years ago. It's not that I wanted to quit these things (I really do love my vices) but they were killing me, some faster than others. Which leaves me to enjoy other vices....it also means that a potential partner doesn't have to worry about how many I've had, or if I'm too far gone to play. I also don't judge other people for being able to modify their brain chemistry in a responsible manner. I was the one with the problem, but I'm feeling much better now.

If you're curious, intrigued, or even just bored and want someone to chat with shoot me a message. I'm not scary...unless you ask me to do that sort of thing.
BDSM and me
BDSM and me...lolol sounds like the title of a "how to" book on learning how to discover yourself in BDSM. That makes me chuckle.

My very first "fetish" would have to be wrestling/primal play. I love to feel the physical give and take, the ebb and flow of the power exchange involved in the strength, strategy, and raw emotion involved in this sort of play.
Update date
Dec 26, 2021
Member since
Aug 25, 2021
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