Intelligent, feminist, poly, American PhD student, complicated, sapiosexual, tattooed, and pierced. Obedient "good girl" type for the right man. Well-trained and finely tuned instrument that requires expert handling.
I need someone who can get into my head, learn what makes me tick, and what turns me on...then use it to control and manipulate me. Put me in my place with respect to you and your Dominance.
To me, the D/s dynamic is The Thing. All other BDSM activities like bondage, sensory control, humiliation, and SM are tools that support the dynamic. I've been out for over 20 years so this is not a "role" I play, it's who I am. Kink is my sexual orientation.
I'm seeking a deep D/s connection that may lead to a long term M/s or ownership/authority-based relationship. But we have to start somewhere so let's get to know each other and see where it leads.
I’m looking for extraordinary, unusual, and quirky folx. Experienced in life (have you faced illness, trauma, grief, or death?)
Experienced in the *public* kink scene (not just your submissive girlfriend in the bedroom.)
Well educated to ideally a post grad level.
Nerdy, academic, and intellectual.
Ideally a Master (owner of humans) but also Dominants welcome.
Kind and compassionate yet consistent with rules and protocols.
Strong spirituality (shamen, gurus, priests, druids, witches, and meditators welcome), high emotional intelligence, and ability to be present.
Beards are a plus
Smash the patriarchy with me.
Please treat me as an equal until we come to trust each other. (This means I will not respond with honorifics nor with any submissive posturing; at first.) I will ask you about your experience and how you learned to do what you do. Surely you won't mind showing me your worth. I'm happy to show mine.
If you're under 30 or outside the U.K. Or Ireland, then there is little chance I will respond to you.