Submissive always, and bi. I've found the right match before, resulting in a FLM of many years before her passing. Subbed for men and women and have always preferred control of a woman. I would consider a role as a woman's slave if the right situation presented itself. I am living very vanilla, with a job and responsibilities. I pride myself on staying physical fit for a mature male and go to my gym daily and believe in trying my best to pass the eye test, smile, listen well and learn to anticipate my Dominate's needs. I pride myself on staying disease free and i have always been loyal and honest. I believe in a good, healthy D/s relationship with good communication, a clear establishment of the power dynamic, shared expectations and happy endings.
I am good for garden and household duties but a lousy cook.
Most of my experiences involve bondage, discipline and TPE role play - always masochistic. I have never had a long term partner (years) in BDSM although I enjoy the discipline and the vulnerability and my willing submission.
No to scat, blood, permanent non agreed to markings, children, rape, castration and pointless cruelty.