Shibharipractice

switch male

53

I’m a married, well educated Englishman living in the US. I am fit, 5’11 and 178 pounds. In work and public life I could be described as that alpha male - a C level exec with a number of business interests - I’m not afraid to make decisions or take the lead, nurture and encourage. Behind the proverbial closed doors I lean more towards - although I don’t like the word - sub. Everyone’s experiences and needs are so different a single label is difficult. Do I daydream of that day shopping with a controlling domme to buy new expensive clothes and boots, to come back to the anonymity of a hotel and be denied seeing or touching them - yes I do…. But then also the thought of tying and teasing someone with a silk tie worn to a good dinner makes me smile… as does the potential punishment after it. Ultimately it is about making others happy. So as someone who travels around the US and Europe regularly what am I looking for? I find it too binary to describe as online or in person only but I think of it as connecting and mutually developing and exploring these areas of our personalities.

Mutually decide

Not so new and still finding myself and others

Sep 30, 2024

Dec 28, 2021