I grew up as an ultra orthodox Jew, which meant I could never understand my sexual urges until I discovered kink on the internet at 24 years old, now (2022) at 25 -amomgst other reasons- I have left my community (although I have enjoyed my life untill now within the community) and am free to explore my sexuality!!
I am most naturally a submissive, though I also enjoy being dominant sometimes.
The type of submissive I like is being bound against my will. For me I enjoy the fact that I can't do anything and am completely in the control of someone else, therefore my biggest turn on is being humiliated in that situation for indeed being entirely in the hands of my dominant. Other things such as whipping would be turn ons as much as they encourage the above feeling. [When being the dominant I enjoy being the inverse of this i.e. having complete control of my sub.]
Ultimately however, I am very new to this, and am therefore open to anything.
I don't have all my limits clear, due to my little experience and the fact that I am still learning some of the lingo, but some limits which come to mind straight away are any penetrations into my urethra, or feces play.