S the dom

Male

28

Single

i am an author and a fairly gentle person but in the bedroom i crave to let that go because of how much work it is so i am rough and firm but very loving, i insist on safewords and always obey them im fond of pet names and if its your thing i would give a bit of thought to a slave name but thats not one of my yeses but also not one of my nos. i am 26 and bi. i have lately given women a wide berth in vanilla life due to them thinking they want a macho rough drugs guns and money guy. i have no intrest in being that and dont play pretend well. at least unless its a fantasy thing but even then im not the best actor. my first was into CNC until we tried and she found i wouldnt beat her and pry her legs open. it made me queasy even trying. i dont mind the verbal no means yes but if i have to hurt you im going to be sick. i dont like dishing out punishments but see them as necessary for certian people. thats kinda why i avoid TPE. with men i can its easier i honestly think its because some deep part of me feels if im in a gay relationship oh well might as well go all in on Fd up because despite being happily bi i havnt ever had a decent male partner who wasnt into forced femminization or wasnt a case of we both wanted the top bunk and it blew up our freindship in the end. ive had vanellia relationships with women and frankly well they lacked they were still better then the men who wanted everything but wouldnt work for it either. im a firm beliver in that the sub is the one with the real power. i may be in charge. but only if the sub lets me willingly. i as such will shape myself to what the sub needs if you need a daddy i can do that. if you want to be tied up and flogged on the weekend so you can face another day in the office i can do that. what i cant do is live it always everyday everywhere, i firmly believe bdsm belongs amoung adults in their home. does that mean id hide it from our kids if that ever came to be? probably somewhat i wouldnt fuck in front of them but i would not mind them knowing that it was the way it was. so long as we explained things on their level and helped them become who they wanted to be regardless of who that was. but thats just good parenting.

i am a british lace dom, meaning i am so comfortable in my sexuality that i could cross-dress and wear a feather boa and still make it macho i favor pink button ups and jeans or sweats i like femboys mtf or fems for fems i am willing to switch if thats your desire for men and mtf i prefer top but wont neglect you either. i enjoy spankings and butt jewelry but dont force either at least for fems kind of difficult when all you got to work with is two holes. but i LOVE body jewelry be it pierced belly buttons nipple clamps or bars or just a chain worn decoratively around the waist and attached to the collar. i do believe in day collars like a necklace or choker depending on prefrences but at home im fond of full locking collars. but i make sure the partner always knows where the key is if they need it and im not around. if it isnt important and they take it off but dont want to end the relationship... id probably paddle em. but that's a good way for brats to get me going when they want to so yeah.

knife play, openly displaying kink (does not include risking discovery just forcing it on all and sundry) extreme breath play, scat, piss drinking, cucking (not opposed to sharing on occasion)

Jan 6, 2022

Jan 4, 2022