Onlytimewilltell

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Exploring this site and reading blogs. College graduate with a stable career. Very strong A-type personality and extremely driven. I workout to clear my head and to maintain a healthy lifestyle. Very open minded when it comes to the experience or inexperience of a potential submissive. Communication is extremely important to me and without it relationships fail. I will ask a lot of questions because how can I attempt to be your Dom if I don’t know you. The sexual submission of a sub is nice but that doesn’t carry the dynamic and I need the mental submission for this to even work. I am looking for a submissive to compliment my life.

This lifestyle for me is mental first sexual second. Men hav been trying to control a woman by brute force for years and the safest place for a woman is her mind. That’s we she goes to shut off the world. When a woman allows you access to her thoughts that’s the trust. That is where pure control and submission comes from.

Anything and everything in life takes time and this should be no different. If you’re willing to share yourself with me then I think we have a better chance of finding where we meet in the middle. You’re not my submissive and I am not your Dominant and it’s up to us to discuss what our dynamic could look like. Communication is a lost art and if we don’t take the time to address our commitment to the institution of BDSM we will fail.


What I was looking for? No longer looking. 

A women who understands this lifestyle is mental first and sexual second. I am not looking for a woman who believes the sex she provides is BDSM. This is mental submission for me and if you think this lifestyle is about sex and toys we will not work. Sex is great but we can agree that you have been fucked and fucked over so let’s get much deeper. A woman who is willing to be vulnerable enough to let me see how I fit into her world is important to me. I need to know what your world looks like before I can attempt to Dominant anything.




What does being a Dominant mean to me?

My role is to exercise control over my submissive. Allowing you to feel confident that I can take over decision making and give you peace. Being a Dom does not mean that I get to do whatever I want unless discussed with my submissive. My control relies heavily on trust and understanding. After a long day of making decisions for everyone else you just want a break. You want to hang up the decision making stick and just serve. It’s about investing in you as a woman and improving you. Having a Dom that will understand what you need when you need it. If you are not mentally connected to your Dom you are just fucking with kink. I believe there are a huge amount of women that very excited about the attention you receive. Remember a Dom is caring all the baggage that you get tired of carrying. The stress that life creates for you a Dom pick’s up. The frustrations you have a Dom grabs for you. Know your sexual side should not be all he knows.When you are a Dom, you get to control how you have sex and you can ensure that you are doing exactly what you like each time. When you are a sub, you are putting your safety into your Dominant’s hands and trusting that he/she knows exactly how to handle you. 

If you have questions you can reach out and ask me.

Animals, switching, dismemberment, broken bones and gun play

Jan 1, 2023

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