SubTraveler

Male

Hi everyone, I've been active in the scene for several years years but almost entirely by paid sessions and a couple of long term girlfriends because I wanted to keep my private/public lives separate. After all that, I have a fairly good idea of how I like to play, what I enjoy and don't enjoy, and what I might enjoy. Now I am trying to be more open with my kinks and finding people with my interests, but I do still want to keep some level of separation between this and my public/vanilla life. Right now I am trying to meet and chat with like minded people and see where things go from there. I love to travel so if I am not near you, there's a good chance that I will be at some point in time.

When I interact with people in the scene, I prefer to talk as equals and keep things fun and light hearted outside of play. I don't like the dramatic classical D/s dynamic with tons of protocols 24/7 because it makes me feel on edge when I am talking with someone, and it becomes difficult for me to let down my guard and get to know the person. I know a lot of people like that, but it's not for me. I'm low key and very difficult to offend, and I prefer a casual atmosphere outside of sessions.

As far as my non-fetish/public life goes, I like to go out and experience new things, hike, travel, and watch movies.

In a nutshell, I'm into female domination and humiliation aspects of BDSM, but I do enjoy rough physical domination and some pain thrown in. The physical domination and pain give me the feeling of being overpowered and helpless to stop whatever humiliation is coming next, which I strongly prefer over just being told to do things. My tolerance for thudding pain is much higher than my tolerance for stinging pain. I also like when WAM/sploshing is incorporated for added humiliation. I prefer being dominated, but I am capable dominating as well. I am not into findom at all and will not do it. Here is my list of interests - I'm open to trying new things if the don't directly cross a hard limit:

Likes (stars by favorites)
- *Humiliation and degradation, especially physical humiliation
- *Embarrassing hazing/bullying
Wedgies
Swirlies
Wet Willies
Noogies
Anything else along those lines
- *Rough Physical Domination/Humiliation
Hair pulling
Ear pulling
Getting dragged or thrown around
- Domination and humiliation against my will
- *Beat downs/punching
- Light to medium ball kicking/kneeing (no stomping or heavy ball busting)
- Being overpowered or powerless (pinned down, tied up, sat on, etc.)
- Forced foot/body worship for humiliation (ass, breasts, and feet are all fine but not a big dedicated foot fetish fan, though)
- Forced foot gagging
- Bondage to put me more at your mercy
- Tease and denial
- Fantasy/domination wrestling
- *Facesitting as long as it is not nude facesitting
- *Smothering (both ass and breast smothering are ok)
- *Face and body writing/branding
Lipstick
Sharpie
Markers
- *Wet and Messy/Sploshing (I have no food allergies)
throwing messy stuff
getting it in my hair
shoving my face in messy stuff
messy wedgies
messy pants/underwear filling
- *Role play scenarios - Here are some favorites:
Schoolgirl/cheerleader bully vs nerd
Female cheerleaders hazing a new male cheerleader.
Sorority girls hazing a frat boy
Strong female athlete bully in athletic wear
Secretary/boss hazing and humiliating an intern
- *Multi-Dom Sessions
- *Audience/vanilla girls watching the session for extra humiliation
- *Humiliating mementos - Little humiliating things that are relatively easy to hide in public, but I have to endure them on the way home (I want to try this, especially at the end of a scene/session); here are some ideas:
Putting messy things in my underwear
Swirlies just before I leave so I have to go home with wet swirly hair
Being forced to wear panties on the way home
Getting a huge wedgie and being forced to keep it that way until I get home. Possibly even getting a wedgie over my shoulders and then having a shirt over the top of it.
Painting my finger or toenails

Turn offs
- Forced elaborate "performances" or tasks: I don't know why it's so common, but being told to dance, oink like a pig, and hump things are really common. And they've been a huge turn off every time. Being told to kiss your foot or kiss your ass for added humiliation after a beatdown or something is fine, but the elaborate performance stuff kind of ruins the session for me.
- Elaborate forced fem. Painting nails, drawing on me with lipstick, and forcing me to wear embarrassing panties and stuff is fine as added humiliation and bullying, but the really elaborate dresses and makeup and pretending to be a sissy are an immediate turn off.
- Excessive amounts of spanking, nipple torture, or other stinging pain. I can take some, but I am not a big fan of stinging pain. I can take a lot more thudding pain.
- Overly cold temperature play. Ice or Ice cream down the pants and stuff like that is great, but not spraying or dumping ice cold stuff all over me.

Hard Limits
- Forced bi
- Extreme pain/CBT
- Shocking or burning
- Blood, scat, or other bodily fluids except for spit (“golden” or ”brown” swirlies are ok)
- Forced feeding / forced consumption (this is common with sploshing and messy play, but I don’t like it)
- No ingestion of bodily fluids except for spit
- Marking that lasts longer than a day
- Unhygienic or smelly worship / scent play

I'm looking for play partners and/or kinky friends who have similar interests.

Jan 31, 2022

Jan 31, 2022