I would like to thank you for taking the time to read this, it shows that you are serious and interested in finding the one who will suit your needs. I would like to start by describing myself so you have a better understanding of who I am. I am 21 years old, white, 6 foot and have an athletic build. I am located in Canada and I currently line alone with my dog. I am a hard-working man with full-time employment and also full-time employment in my sole proprietor business, yes I am a busy man. I am very athletic in sports, i enjoy time being in the outdoors and just surrounding myself with things I enjoy.
I don’t want the person reading this to worry about being “my type” just be yourself. I consider myself a big nerd. I enjoy working on computers, building lego model kits, gaming, photographing. Other hobbies include volunteer work, making erotic content for my business, and I used to do a lot of photography competitions although that has slowed down. A submissive who can show interest in my hobbies is a must, it’s a part of non-sexual intimacy and growing close with your partner.
What I look for in a submissive: A submissive to me has to be loyal, trusting, curious, willing to learn, respectful, caring, patient, and someone who wants to be more than just a sex toy. I want a best friend as well as a submissive. As for ages, body types, etc, I really don’t care as long as you’re 18+. I’m open to mentoring and being friends, but for serious submissives, I’d prefer someone who would be open to online and then progress in person.
I’m naturally dominant and have been involved with BDSM for as long as I’ve been sexually active, and in that time I’ve has my share of dominant relationships, with myself as the dominant. I’ve developed a pretty good idea of what works for me, and what I am looking for, and this is my attempt to find it.
I'm open to a lot of sexual ideas in either roleplay or actually playing them so if you have something in mind you want to do please feel free to be open with me.
Dynamic
This should go without saying, but for me, anything that turns me on relates to me being in control. Sexually, I like a strict dynamic with rules and protocols. I enjoy assigning rewards and punishments, as well as tasks. I have a range of kinks including restraints, spankings, discipline training (with rewards and punishments), name-calling and humiliation. But the unifying theme is that they enforce this power dynamic where I have control over my sub, physically or mentally. In terms of online play, I enjoy setting rules: things like how to address me, or how to ask permission to masturbate or orgasm. I also like controlling more mundane things - dietary or clothing restrictions, for example. As well as rules, I like setting one-off tasks - that might be sexual, or something arbitrary. Ultimately, I want my sub to give her all to me, and to let me take control of whichever aspects of her life that I wish. In return, you get the comfort and reward of knowing you are in safe hands, and that you don't have to make decisions. In terms of physical play, I tend to take the lead, but sometimes enjoy sitting back to let my subtend to me; again, in either case, it's about getting my sub to do what I want and to fulfil my desires at that moment.
My kinks include but are not limited to Spanking, choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation, gags, breeding, and roleplay. I’ve had some experience since first joining Cage so I’ve experimented with long-distance vibrators, more sadistic things, pet play, and lots more.
As always, safewords and open communication, please.
Some of my kinks are degradation, humiliation, bondage, impact play, public play, collars, having control over how you dress, speaking when you must sit or stand etc, breast play, orgasm denial, pain play, and set rules and there are more but we can talk about everything privately.
Currently, I am looking for a submissive to train and play with online. Perhaps someone who would be interested in person after a while, or not. I am truly open to a variety of things
I’m open to a variety of age ranges, so don’t feel shy. As long as legal and over the age of 18+
I will greatly take the time to get to know you for who you are, what your interest is, goals in life, and make sure we connect. I hope to hear from you and I thank you for taking the time to read through this. If i don’t hear from you, I hope you have a great day, take care.