49 year old who lives on the South Coast in England.
I’ve been exploring my submissive side for a few years, and have loved discovering my kinks. My main discoveries have been that I’m a sexual service submissive and masochistic, who loves to be dominated through praise, a little degradation, bondage, anal toys, orgasm control, hidden public control and increasing levels of pain through impact and clamps.
I’m an organised, practical type and the absolute last person my friends and family would expect to long for being able to turn my brain off, and have someone I can trust completely to be both my partner and Dominant.
I don’t find it easy to trust and there needs to be an emotional connection for me to feel comfortable. Friendship and respect is as important as matching kinks, and a keen sense of humour is really important to me because life is so often ridiculous. My sub side is quite needy and emotional compared to the rest of my life, and I do wonder if there is a part of me that is ‘little’.
Outside of my secret BDSM life, I enjoy reading, cooking, walking, gardening and crafts. I’m a 5’9 plus size woman with red hair and grey eyes.