AlphaVixen
sub female

Premium
Quebec City, Quebec, Canada
Age
57
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
If you don't know what an Alpha Vixen is, I suggest you read this:
https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/self-understanding/alpha-submissives/

Credit needs to be given to my new friend Lord Crutiatus for explaining to me, the nuances of my personality and that my needs/wants are directly related to who I am as a person.  (ENFJ)

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During the day I'm a professional business woman. I have been in this industry for 30 years and still enjoy the challenges it presents. I have earned the respect of my male peers and appreciate that they look to my intellect to solve problems and deal with difficult clients.

In my personal life, I'm a dedicated friend to those who are allowed into my circle. I'm more often their "bartender" and sounding board when they need it. I'm honest, respectful, loyal, truthful, open, forgiving, trustworthy and loving. I expect the same of my friends.

I take people at face value... I do not judge them for their past mistakes, for that has contributed to them being the person they are today.

But be warned, if you hurt me or one of my friends, I will fight back with a fierceness you've not yet seen.

I have not had an easy life, it's been full of challenges and obstacles. Those experiences have taught me one thing: I'm a survivor! I will weather any storm, with calm, perseverance, and a sarcastic sense of humour! Because seriously, if you can't laugh at yourself, when you've done something as stupid as falling into a liquid manure pit... Then you need professional help!! :)

Thankfully, I love life, with all it's bumps. I love swimming in a lake, roasting marshmallows, dancing in the summer rain, jumping in puddles, playing with my husky, sitting in the middle of nature, staring at it and just being. I enjoy many hobbies - I love creating with my hands. I love time with my friends and making others laugh with whatever comes out of my mouth (half the time I don't think first... and surprise myself!).

Therefore, being in full control of my life, from a very young age... I crave the sexual situation where I can relinquish that control to someone I trust implicitly to do whatever they wish to me... with consent... to bring us both pleasure.

It's playing for adults! Kids play hide and seek.. we play Hide the Sausage (or a variation of that). :)

BDSM and me
I've always felt something was missing.... and I've always been intrigued and turned on by what I've seen and researched about being submissive - to an extent.  I'm looking to explore what that would be like.
 
Some people call it kinky, others call it bdsm.  Tied up, bound, whips, paddles, pleasure for both people, with consent.  Being controlled by a man, manhandled, a little rough is okay.  Willing to experiment and mutually satisfy each other.  I won't know what all I'll like until I try it.

I've met some wonderful people in the community now, and have had a chance to experience a few things.  The journey continues.

I do enjoy... spanking, flogging, light bondage, sensory deprivation (bindfolds).  There are still many other things to try.

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 
90% Rope bunny 
86% Submissive 
59% Voyeur 
50% Vanilla 
50% Rigger 
50% Experimentalist 
50% Exhibitionist 
49% Brat 
42% Daddy/Mommy 
37% Switch 
33% Primal (Prey) 
32% Dominant 
24% Non-monogamist 
18% Masochist 
12% Primal (Hunter) 
7% Master/Mistress 
4% Boy/Girl 
1% Slave 
1% Owner 
1% Pet 
1% Ageplayer 
0% Degradee 
0% Degrader 
0% Sadist 
 


Limits
HARD LIMITS:
Anything illegal... that goes without saying
 - humiliation
 - scat play
 - needle play
 - blood play
 - fire play
 - piercing
 - sounding
 - pet play
 - breath play
 - watersports
Update date
Oct 2, 2020
Member since
Dec 1, 2017
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