AlphaVixen

sub female

2025 Update:
I've moved back to the Ottawa area Dec 2024. My ex of 6.5 years and I called it quits in May of 2024, but in truth it had been over for a couple years already. I'm not looking for a long term relationship, you don't look for those, you start as friends and if it becomes that.. great! If not, you have another friend! Bonus!

My write up below explains the type of person I am pretty well.
But add to that, I'm also so much more.
I'm a Twitch streamer / artist / gamer / crafter / dog and cat lover.
Yes, I play Minecraft and Fortnite. I can spin wool into yarn for knitting and weaving. I watercolour paint, pet portraits are quickly becoming my specialty, definitely hyper-realism. I quilt, sew, make beaded jewelry and even do some minor woodworking.

I love hanging out with people, listening and offering sage advice (if I have any to give). I also love just hanging out at home, in front of the fireplace or out in my garden, or out on my bicycle, once the weather warms up.

I don't fit into any one category. I just love life and making the best of it. So if that isn't enough for you... read on!
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During the day I'm a professional business woman. I have been in this industry for 30 years and still enjoy the challenges it presents. I have earned the respect of my male peers and appreciate that they look to my intellect to solve problems and deal with difficult clients.

In my personal life, I'm a dedicated friend to those who are allowed into my circle. I'm more often their "bartender" and sounding board when they need it. I'm honest, respectful, loyal, truthful, open, forgiving, trustworthy and loving. I expect the same of my friends.

I take people at face value... I do not judge them for their past mistakes, for that has contributed to them being the person they are today.

But be warned, if you hurt me or one of my friends, I will fight back with a fierceness you've not yet seen.

I have not had an easy life, it's been full of challenges and obstacles. Those experiences have taught me one thing: I'm a survivor! I will weather any storm, with calm, perseverance, and a sarcastic sense of humour! Because seriously, if you can't laugh at yourself, when you've done something as stupid as falling into a liquid manure pit... Then you need professional help!! :)

Thankfully, I love life, with all it's bumps. I love swimming in a lake, roasting marshmallows, dancing in the summer rain, jumping in puddles, playing with my husky, sitting in the middle of nature, staring at it and just being. I enjoy many hobbies - I love creating with my hands. I love time with my friends and making others laugh with whatever comes out of my mouth (half the time I don't think first... and surprise myself!).

Therefore, being in full control of my life, from a very young age... I crave the sexual situation where I can relinquish that control to someone I trust implicitly to do whatever they wish to me... with consent... to bring us both pleasure.

It's playing for adults! Kids play hide and seek.. we play Hide the Sausage (or a variation of that). :)

I like this article: https://tenshadesandme.co.uk/2023/12/17/what-is-an-alpha-submissive/https://tenshadesandme.co.uk/2023/12/17/what-is-an-alpha-submissive/