ChiefGunny

dom male

In a monogamous relationship

I am 56 years old and new to the lifestyle within the year. I am a professional for 30 years. I am currently married for over 20 years but my spouse has not embraced BDSM yet. I am open to SUB/TPE locally. I have permission to explore my kinky side.

within the year, I have had one sub/TPE relationship that opened and awakened me to life. I discovered I am a service/pleasure Dom right now but I am starting to explore my primal side as well. I love controlling what my sub wears and exploring fantasies together. I have so many unfulfilled fantasies that I want to explore. I am creative, nice, sweet, but also there is an energy in me that challenges authority and rules. I am both an ENFJ and a INFJ, oddly.

The usual stuff: blood, scat, cutting, knives, wax, and harm play. Currently my hard limits include intercourse but do include BJ, oral, and kissing, touching, masturbation for both of us.

Everything has been so new recently. I learned a big lesson about hard limits. I developed dom frenzy and broke the relationship. I had to learn the hard way. But I have learned none the less.

Jun 17, 2022

Jun 12, 2022