shydiscreteone
sub female

Champaign, Illinois, United States
Age
50
Relationship status
Single
About me
I’m not perfect and I don’t claim to be. I have insecurities, I get jealous, I overthink everything, I have trust issues, and some days I don’t think I’m good enough, not every day is my best. I am strong, but not in the way that most people think, I will automatically stop trying if I feel unwanted. I won’t fix or beg; I will just walk away. My life has been full of obstacles, but I have overcome them all with the strength of a lioness. I give without a hidden agenda, and although I can be brutally honest, I never judge anyone. I want to grow and be the best version of myself.
Someday I’ll will make someone proud to call me theirs and they will realize that something special kneels in front of them.
BDSM and me
I'm a natural submissive with salve tendencies, i have been in the lifestyle for 11 years. I do love a certain level of pain, it keeps me centered and focused. But at the same time I also need tender touches with forehead kisses. My requirements are broad on the spectrum only the strong and experienced can handle me.
Limits
Into: "actually reading people's profiles!" (everything to do with it), "cum for me, baby" whispered in my ear (receiving), "good girl" (receiving), "good girl, i'm proud of you"during aftercare (everything to do with it), "mine" as a term of endearment (everything to do with it), "slut" as a term of endearment (receiving), "yes, sir." (receiving), "you belong to me" whispered in my ear (receiving), a strong dom with a tender touch (everything to do with it), affection (receiving), aftercare (receiving), aftercare cuddles (receiving), attention (receiving), back_against_the_wall_hand_on_the_throat_hot_breath_in_the_ear (receiving), bare bottom spanking (receiving), bare handed spanking (receiving), being called a good girl (everything to do with it), being fucked with a hand on my throat and threats being whispered into my ear (receiving), being pushed up against a wall in a passionate kiss (everything to do with it), blindfolds (receiving), breast/nipple play (receiving), caressing (receiving), clit spanking (receiving), communication (everything to do with it), control (receiving), d/s (everything to do with it), daddy's little slut as a term of endearment (receiving), deep penetration (everything to do with it), deep vaginal penetration (everything to do with it), discipline (receiving), double penetration (receiving), erotic literature (everything to do with it), flogging (receiving), forehead kisses (receiving), genuine and deep submission, the heartfelt kind that comes from trust, respect, lust, and mental and emotional connection (everything to do with it), handcuffs (everything to do with it), honesty (receiving), ice cubes (everything to do with it), impact play (receiving), kissing (everything to do with it), multiple orgasms (receiving), neck biting (receiving), paddling (receiving), pain (receiving), power exchange (receiving), power exchange relationships, punishment (receiving), remote-control devices (receiving), restraints (receiving), sensual domination (everything to do with it), snuggling (everything to do with it), spanking (receiving), submission (everything to do with it), subspace (everything to do with it), tattoos (everything to do with it), using whispers to make you shudder (receiving), vibrators (everything to do with it), whips (receiving), writing erotica (everything to do with it), yes, sir. (giving)
Curious About: violet wand (receiving)
Soft Limits: anal sex (receiving), crawling (everything to do with it)
Hard Limits: artistic cutting (everything to do with it), asphyxiaphilia play (everything to do with it), ass to mouth (everything to do with it), barefoot (everything to do with it), bastinado (everything to do with it), blood play (everything to do with it), branding (everything to do with it), breath play (everything to do with it), caging/confinement (everything to do with it), electrical play (everything to do with it), face slapping (receiving), feet (everything to do with it), fire play (everything to do with it), foot/feet (everything to do with it), gangbangs (everything to do with it), human toilet (everything to do with it), humiliation (everything to do with it), public humiliation (everything to do with it), watersports (everything to do with it)
Update date
Jul 9, 2022
Member since
Jul 6, 2022
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