Hello! I am relatively new here but have read and lurked and engaged in a few online/irl things that I’ve already realized more of what I want.
I’m intelligent, have a good job, witty, intuitive and a mass of contradictions. I’m well read and like to travel (altho not as much as I want to).
I’m an excellent communicator and love getting to know people-but am pretty terrible at small talk. I wanna know why you decided where to go to college not where. Or how you realized you wanted to do the work you are doing rather than what you actually do. I’m interested in the facts but the reasons behind the facts interest me more.
I like to surround myself with people who are inspiring, compassionate and are trying to find the hope in a world on fire. I can be a bit of a cynic and always a little sarcastic but love to be around people who can be the same AND also want to be reminded (and to remind me) that a world based in love is way better than a world based in cynicism.
Im 44 and would call myself cute (lots of freckles). I have a round body. I love myself but like most women sometimes forget. But the older I get those times are fewer and far between. I am currently on a path to become stronger and love motivation (and rewards when I’ve been a good girl and done all my tasks ☺️)
My turn ons are intelligence and humor. I’m pretty open to trying most things at least once but some things would require way more conversation, exploring and somethings feel like a hard no. However I’m also old enough to realize things change as you know more.
I’d love to find someone who wants to spend time getting to know one another online but is open to a real life meetup, if it seemed to make sense. I am more interested in the possibility of a longer term connection because I crave the mental submission and that takes trust. I am open to meet ups for fun but definitely prioritize talking to folks who are also looking for a longer term connection.
I love pleasing people and getting affirmation but I also like the idea of a strict Sir. Being pushed to figuring out my limits is exciting to me. I also know that nothing is hotter to me than knowing something I’m doing is turning my partner on.
I know I need a Dom I can respect and traits I respect are honesty, kindness, intelligence, awareness of the world around them, humor (not the kind that makes people feel less), vulnerability and openness. If I can’t respect who you are as a person it is almost impossible for me to submit to you as a Dom. I like gentleman :). I also love strong masculine men who like traditional roles…and ones who can put me in my place if I need it. ☺️
I can be impatient and like instant gratification (in all things) but I’d love to play with people who push me to see the greater satisfaction/rewards in delayed gratification. I love dirty talk but it will inevitably make me blush.
I am incredibly loyal and have a great capacity to care and serve. I am honest and genuine and communicate my feelings. In real life, I really am a good girl and am guided by my values. I have a tender heart tho. Because I am so loyal to people I care about, I am cautious with my trust as I get to know someone.
Well I’ve probably written too much but if you’ve read this, and are interested in having some get to know you convos, I’d love to talk to you. I won’t answer if you are disrespectful, send one sentence or have almost no explanation of who you are.
Absolutely no MAGA, Trumpers or anti-vaxxers
Am on Fet-same name :)
P.S. Not interested in folks who are married or separated—have a preference for someone who is looking for monogamy for a more long term connection but am open to irl play
Still too new to say so am open to exploring. Things I know that turn me on: deepthroating, orgasm control, mental domination, power exchange
Dishonesty-i rarely give second chances when getting to know someone.