Kit Switch

Female

## About the vanilla me:

I am a switch, polyamorus with a nesting partner and practice relationship anarchy. ( Relationship anarchy is a way of approaching relationships that rejects any rules and expectations other than the ones the involved people agree on. This approach "encourages people to let their core values guide how they choose and craft their relationship commitments rather than relying on social norms to dictate what is right for you and your partners) I'm an artist. I am always looking for a new challenge in my art journey. I have a passion for photography as well. I am a nerd/geek and a big fan of studio Ghibli. Japanese culture brings out so much wonderlust in me. I dream of visiting someday. For now I watch animes and study the mythology. I have a desire to travel like I did as a child as well. I mean there is so much out there why not at least try to see some of it. Also antiquing/upcycling is something I'm passionate about. I love giving something new life.

My core values adapted to all areas of my life are so beautifuly explained by a dear friend of mine with CABINS. consent, aftercare, boundaries, (true) intentions, negotiations, and safety).
[https://fetlife.com/users/3882746/posts/4950099](https://fetlife.com/users/3882746/posts/4950099). I hope to meet more friends and grow connections within the community.
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# *POLYAMORY AND DATING KINKY*

1. I am polyamourus, meaning I find love in a variety of relationships. I do not put my love/relationships into a box of toxic expectations. I practice relationship anarchy and do not desire to be in any relationship hierarchy.
2. Kink is a part of who I am, anyone I date romantically or any partners I may have will need to accept that. I do not expect anyone to change who they are to be with me, please respect me in the same way.
3. I am open to many sexual orientations for many types of relationship/dynamics. My love doesn't only come in the form of romance.

*❤️*❤️*❤️*❤️*❤️*
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# *WHAT MAKES ME A SWITCH*

The best way to begin to know who I am as a switch is to understand the Kitsune.

I am spiritually strong, I choose to use my strength in submission for those I deem worthy, I overpower others without the egoic mindset, I am benevolent, I am malevolent. I am free spirited, I long to submit my services, I am full of what others may seem as contradictions, though they are a powerful mastery of lifetimes of knowledge. (Yes I believe our souls have lived many lives)

I am also a little, my little age is between 5-7. I love being playful and giggly when I am able to feel comfortable with the company I'm in.

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# *WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR AS A SUBMISSIVE*

I'm looking for a Dominant male that understands the powerful mental and emotional connection within a D/s relationship. I am looking for a long term relationship, my ideal Dominant partner would be an intelligent Daddy Dom who can guide, protect, punish and welcome my babygirl (sometimes brat) and fox. Someone dedicated to my growth and expects the best out of me. Who will not allow me to faulter over and over. A mental/emotional/physical Sadist who requires acts of service/humiliation from his submissive (50's style) . with primal tendencies, who can tame/train/take my fox without expecting her to stay caged....well metaphorically. Some caging may be needed. I can never be fully owned since a fox is a wild animal, but I will be loyal to the right persons.

I'm also looking for someone who can handle all of me. I do not expect a Dominant male to switch with me. I DO expect a prospective Dominant partner to understand I do need to be Dominant at times, and that I will have submissive play partners at times. I may have multiple Dominant partners as well.

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# WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR AS DOMINANT



I do not have sexual relationships with my submissive play partners, I am polyamourus and if chemistry is right for a relationship with a submissive male then we can discuss this further** that being said I will need to have a mental connection with a submissive before I can begin to plan play.



I have the dominant traits within me, and I know I need to develop them. I also know that I can share a lot from what I have learned and admit that I have more to learn. I have a strong deep seeded desire to continue growing and learning.To me that is what I expect from a dominant.

•I want to train a good girl or boy pet, my Domme requires full submission and I don't mix well with brats as a Dominant.

•I love dressing up a cute doll and making them super duper cute! Make up and hair included! If you are interested in being "made up" for an event or play date I'd love to help. All genders/orientations welcome.

•i have a need for submissives to offer me service submission. This can include clean up duty after I have been serviced by a dominant male. Correct and proper preparation of a play space. To simple tasks that are beneath me to preform.

• I enjoy more of the mental/psychological/sadistic form of Domination. All genders and orientations welcome for my sadistic play.


CBT is my top Dom kink, I want to tourture you, see you squirm, let me punish you for your your "wrong doings". I am willing to work with you on your aftercare needs but sex is not an aftercare i can provide.

# As with all play negotiations are a priority

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Untill next time -❤️ KIT


100%  Non-monogamist

93%  Primal (Prey)

93%  Pet

91%  Girl/Boy

88%  Switch

87%  Primal (Hunter)

87%  Brat

86%  Rigger

77%  Sadist

76.5%  Submissive

73%  Owner

70%  Master/Mistress

69.5%  Masochist

69%  Ageplayer

63.5%  Brat Tamer

57.5%  Dominant

57%  Degrader

50%  Degradee

47%  Daddy/Mommy

44%  Experimentalist

38.5%  Cuckold / Cuckqean

37%  Rope Bunny

32%  Voyeur

32%  Slave

25%  Vanilla

25%  Swinger

15%  Findomme

7%  Exhibitionist

6%  Pay Pig

Discussed with each partner

Aug 25, 2022

Aug 25, 2022