Hello, Here are some fast facts about me I am a 32 year old male Dominant. I stand at 6'3 or 190.5 cm I am in pretty decent shape. I like how I look and on a scale out of ten I would say I am a high seven on an average day but can make myself a solid nine after the three S's (Shave, Shower, Suit). I wear glasses, and overall enjoy the ability to see things. I have a profession that takes me all across the globe. In my own sense of style I prefer utility and function over looks and glam, this only applies to when I am working or lounging, when needed I can show up pressed and well dressed. I am an Open book, I feel no need to find most things from any one. If you have questions feel free to ask them and I will answer as soon as I can.
I have been in and out of the scene since I was old enough to know what the scene was. I learned early on that I liked it when things were done correctly, and it just happened to turn out that the way I liked things done was the correct way. Eventually that blossomed into the Domination that some people very much enjoy. This does not mean that I am stuck in my ways, in fact if I come across a better way for things to be done, that is the new correct way. To me BDSM is a beautiful thing, it is an ecosystem, full of wonderful things and people. Much like any ecosystem you have consumers and producers, the consumer is your average Insta-Dom just add a pinch of someone mentioning submission and they will try to consume everything they can at once. Kinda like those frogs that attempt to eat things large then themselves and die, it doesn't really work out well. To me a good Dom and a good Sub both produce what the other one needs, they care for one another and that keeps the dynamic balanced. This applies to any dynamic from the Brats and the Brat Tamers, to the Masochists and Sadists, especially (I feel at least) the Masters and Submissive (regardless of the specific Titles). Starting off with the simple act of talking to get to know one another, building up the needed trust for anything to be built upon that foundation. Trust is Key, without that all important ingredient you do not have BDSM in all its wonders you have abuse. The next steps can differ depending on who every one is, you can jump right in or take things slow and cautious. The only real wrong way to do anything is to press forward when your gut is screaming for you to pull the emergency breaks. Some mental resistance is to be expected but I feel that a Dom and Sub (Especially a Sub) should both feel free to end things at any time. Why? Our world great as it may be, can not adapt to somethings. Unexpected hardships, and loss may require that the dynamic is placed on hold for an indefinite possibly infinite amount of time. Questions, begging, and pestering can only serve to drive the other away if met with silence or a conversation that they would rather not talk about it or similar. To Me BDSM is joyous. I am looking for a Sub to train and Nurture, to help them uncover the person they always were meant to be. People are ever changing and growing with each new experience this is true, but I feel that the core you is basically solid and unyielding. That is who I want to help you to uncover and introduce you to. With that growth you may uncover unexpected things, or learn that you actually dislike what you once loved. With each new discovery I want to be there to help guide you on the at times confusing journey you are on. I do not want a blind "Yes man" who agrees to everything I say or ask for, a Sub that I am interested in should have a mind and an ability to speak it. I am not looking exactly for a full fledged Brat. As disagreeing only for the point to disagree is meaningless, and tiring, but some one who will speak their mind when they have something to actually say. I see both the Sexual and Non-Sexual aspects of BDSM like a rope, they are wrapped together why? because its the only way it can properly function. When they are not woven together they are weak and snap, splinter, and fall apart easily. (I am aware not every one feels this way about it.) But when you have a balance that works for every one involved and developed a schedule and routine they can help the other side of things grow further than they could have alone. If anything I wrote speaks to you on any level, lets have a chat about it. We can see what we come up with.
I do not tolerate Permanent marks, blood, Urine or Scat play, or anything underage.