I'm Unruly Nerd Girl, or UNG, or if you really want my attention, little bear. I don't respond well to princess, baby girl, little one, little girl, dear - I most likely won't respond at all.
I have been exploring the BDSM lifestyle since my early 20's, always on the submissive side of the slash, and after all that time, I can honestly say, the only thing I know for certain is that I have so much to learn. Sometimes I am a submissive, sometimes a bottom, often I am a little trapped in an adult form, but I am always curious, and exploring new ideas in this lifestyle. I am mostly lesbian, a demi boy, a mischievous boy without a penis, a gay man with a vagina, a goofy boof head little bear. Canadian, from Ottawa (Ontario), loving life Down Under.
I am very passionate about service submission, and I am happy to share my vision of what it could be like with others. I am thrilled to be a presenter on the topic, or just have a chat. If you're an event organizer and interested in one of my workshops, please feel free to contact me. I travel internationally, so please don't hesitate to ask even if your event might be a world away.
Before you even ask - yes, I would like to play with you! Now, let's negotiate what that could look like. Interested in my service side - fantastic, let's chat! Not interested in playing with a little - no worries - we can choose other fun to be had. I am intrigued by different styles of play, new experiences, and happy to learn new methods of training. For me, power exchange doesn't just happen in the bedroom - it takes place in the dungeon, the living room, discreetly in public, in the car, at family gatherings - and I'm not talking about sex.
I should mention - I'm flirting impaired. I don't know how to interpret it, I don't recognise it - and you really don't want me trying my hand at actually doing it. Last time I tried to flirt, I think I became so nervous, I broke out into interpretive dance - no one needs to see that, no one, ever.
I am open to cis and trans genders - I am more concerned with the soul rather than the physical construct. I am attracted to confidence, but not arrogance, an iron fist in a velvet glove, firm but not aggressive, all tempered with humour, patience, kindness and understanding. I have a penchant for bearded round bears, rockabilly/rollerderby femmes, Daddies in suits, and female Masters.
I am continually striving to grow and better myself - happy to meet those who might be able to help me on this path.
If you’ve made it this far, and you’re mildly curious, or raring to chat, please feel free to message me. Happy to chat with whomever, just don’t be boring.
Please note: I don’t play online, I don’t do online relationships - I am looking for authentic, in person play or possible dynamics only. I don’t use KIK - all requests asking me to download the app will be met with an automatic block.