In a polyamorous relationship
First I would like to point out that I have dyslexia. I know this is not an excuse for my consistent errors in my postings. I often do not see my error until after I send the message. This bothers me as much as others and I wish to apologize here for my many errors. The lack of an edit feature makes it all very annoying.
For the most part I prefer having the dominant role in a relationship but I do have a strong masochist side. I don't believe I am submissive but by most people's definition I am a switch. I have no interest in giving someone power over me but I have met a few people who just have that power.
Right now I am not actively looking for a new partner but if that right person came into my life I would not turn them away as long as they understand that I am Polyamous. I believe if you keep your heart and mind open for the possibilities of life things tend to turn out for the best.
What labels do you use?
Male (sex), genderqueer, polyamous, sapiosexual, ogre, loving monster, bisexual (pansexual), pagan, rigger, dom, daddy dom, switch, sub to the boss, sadist, masochist, and I am sure others (work in progress).
What you are into?
I’m into life, having a good time, and hanging out with my friends. I love rope. I enjoy whips, floggers, straps, extra. I also like other forms of bondage. I also enjoy fire play and electric play.
My joy in this lifestyle comes from the energy I get from a sub/ partner when we play. I find what I am into has a lot to do with what a partner gets off on. I proffer to play with people that understand that when two people come together both have needs that should be met.
What makes you tick?
Intelligence, passion, desire, and the joy of learning something new.
What you are looking for?
Friends, if we can't pull that off I don't see much else coming from the attempt. Other then that it depends on the person and how we click.
My limits ...
I don't play with anyone who cannot legally consent... no kids, drunks (or drugs), animals, or mentally disabled.
I desire no form of permanent harm, physically or mentally, but I know that what we do can lead to harm for both tops and bottoms.
I don't play with new people in private.
I don't do diapers.