traditionalhoh

dom male

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I long for a partner. The slave yin to my dominant yang ( I swear there's a wang pun in there someone but I'm too classy to make it). Someone I can cuddle with and laugh with and do terrible kinky things with. Someone who knows that their place is kneeling by my feet ready and eager to worship me, or sitting next to me at the dinner table in her dress legs spread just wide enough for my hand to slide between her legs because she knows that she always wants to be open and available to me. I'm here looking for a partner. I want someone who will snuggle up with me during the weeknights while we watch Netflix or read and who will go exploring with me to museums and parks and other adventures on the weekend. Someone I can laugh with or cry with. Someone I can trust and share my secrets with. I want someone who I can build a life with, a life centered around shared values and goals, a life where no taboo is hidden from each other. And yes, I want that someone to be a woman who's proud to wear my collar and call me sir. I'm greedy you see! I want all the sweetness and romance of a vanilla relationship along with the spice and deep connection of kink! And, I know that its possible, I've seen it with my own two eyes (may parents are in a life long Master/slave relationship). The Vanilla strengthening the Kink and vice versa. Ultimately I want a human connection, a relationship, just one that involves collars and chains and all manner of kinky things!

my dominant side has always been a part of me. Some of my earliest fantasies were ones of power and control. I grew up in an extremely loving and open family, luckily this part of me has ALWAYS been accepted and I was able to find it early (13 is early right? Sometimes it doesn't seem like it anymore). I could look for a lot of what I wrote about in that first paragraph in other places, but I'm here because I know I could ever be fulfilled without fulfilling my kinky side. And speaking of kinks, I should probably get on with it and tell you a bit about mine! For starters, the things written below are my interests but none of them are mandatory. To me, kinks like bondage or degradation or spanking are all just different expressions of power exchange, and that exchange is what's hot to me. The idea that you want to submit to me is the ultimate turn-on, regardless of what form that submission entails. Obedience: I want you to to find that beautiful calmness and comfort in listening and obeying. It gives you that little extra smile on your face, you know the one that you reserve for those moment where you let all your barriers down and just exists as your Master's beautiful girl. I want you to crave obedience and the discipline that comes with it. Bondage: I want to bind you in ropes and watch you squirm while I tease you with all manner of toys. I want to cuff your hands behind your back while you suck my cock after a long days work. I want to gag your cute little mouth after I tire of your begging. Humiliation/Degradation: I want to call you dirty names. I adore hearing you beg, admitting what a dirty little girl you are. (Seriously, I can't stress how much I love dirty talk) I want to write filthy things all over your body so that when you go out, you'll know that you're marked as mine even if nobody else can see it. I want to snap a leash onto your collar and make you crawl around on all fours like a good little bitch, or make you dress up in slutty clothing. Pain: I want to spank your ass red when you've been bad. And sometimes when you've been good too! ;) I want to play with paddles and floggers and canes. I want to pull your hair tight as I fuck you into submission. I'm a sadist r, and if you need someone to beat you till you're black and blue and you understand how beautiful those marks can be on your skin, I'm your guy.

Limits: While I'm extremely open to new things, I was raised in a VERY open family and as a result I understand that limits (as long as they do not harm anyone) are a fluid subject for me.

Oct 21, 2024

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