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lHavokl
Arizona, United States
lHavokl
Gender
Female
About me
Round two...(been here before)
*Not looking for anything right now, I have too much on my plate. Just here for conversations*
I'm 41 and married, however, in an open relationship. I have children, a 9-5 job, and responsibilities. I'm a gamer(Ps5, some PC), and I highly enjoy reading and sketching once in a while. I love my alone time, helps to unwind and think without interruption. I'm a co-manager for a pretty large and well known deisel travel center company (fancy gas station). I'm pretty mellow and down to earth, however that doesn't mean I'm a pushover and let BS fly. Approach me in good humor, calmly and I will return the efforts. Be aggressive and overbearing I will match your energy and then some. Messages are welcome and encouraged, you are more than welcome to ask anything you want, that doesn't mean you are entitled to all my information. I will try my best to answer all messages, but if at any point I leave you on read that doesn't mean I'm ignoring you, it means I have a life and shit to do, same as you. We're adults, the whole "left on read" whining is stupid get over it. Intelligence is a turn on, also very helpful when making connections and conversations instead meaninglessness small talk. I have my preferences when it comes to physical, ethnic attractions I will not apologize or be made to feel bad for it. I suppose I'm somewhat shallow to a point, and if you want to sit there and say you're not? It's a lie. Everyone has their preferences, and it's ok, I would want to be pleasing to your eyes and vice versa, and if I'm not, it's not the end of the world. I have a thing for voices and intellect, I have been known to develop feelings for someone I mentally click with, not ever laying my eyes on them, don't know can't explain it. Usually, the deep voice follows with this, so it's a win win? Anyways, if you have questions or wish to know more by all means, hit me up. Oh yeah, social media and selfies are a no-go until I know you better, I value my privacy and will extend the same courtesy to you. K, thanks.
"Broken, flawed, and just human."
*Not looking for anything right now, I have too much on my plate. Just here for conversations*
I'm 41 and married, however, in an open relationship. I have children, a 9-5 job, and responsibilities. I'm a gamer(Ps5, some PC), and I highly enjoy reading and sketching once in a while. I love my alone time, helps to unwind and think without interruption. I'm a co-manager for a pretty large and well known deisel travel center company (fancy gas station). I'm pretty mellow and down to earth, however that doesn't mean I'm a pushover and let BS fly. Approach me in good humor, calmly and I will return the efforts. Be aggressive and overbearing I will match your energy and then some. Messages are welcome and encouraged, you are more than welcome to ask anything you want, that doesn't mean you are entitled to all my information. I will try my best to answer all messages, but if at any point I leave you on read that doesn't mean I'm ignoring you, it means I have a life and shit to do, same as you. We're adults, the whole "left on read" whining is stupid get over it. Intelligence is a turn on, also very helpful when making connections and conversations instead meaninglessness small talk. I have my preferences when it comes to physical, ethnic attractions I will not apologize or be made to feel bad for it. I suppose I'm somewhat shallow to a point, and if you want to sit there and say you're not? It's a lie. Everyone has their preferences, and it's ok, I would want to be pleasing to your eyes and vice versa, and if I'm not, it's not the end of the world. I have a thing for voices and intellect, I have been known to develop feelings for someone I mentally click with, not ever laying my eyes on them, don't know can't explain it. Usually, the deep voice follows with this, so it's a win win? Anyways, if you have questions or wish to know more by all means, hit me up. Oh yeah, social media and selfies are a no-go until I know you better, I value my privacy and will extend the same courtesy to you. K, thanks.
"Broken, flawed, and just human."
BDSM and me
All of my interactions have been of online form only( be aware that this may be the only form I can offer). Been married for 21 yrs, the whole open marriage is still kinda recent. So, having actual physical experience was kinda hard. Am I open to it? possibly?
** I am NOT a sub. NO, I will not attempt to sub for anyone nor am I interested to explore it. **
** I am NOT a sub. NO, I will not attempt to sub for anyone nor am I interested to explore it. **
Limits
I'm pretty open and will compromise to make the relationship work, what I may think is odd may not be for you but we can talk about it and find a middle ground.
What's new
At this point? I don't even know.
Update date
Aug 10, 2024
Member since
Jan 12, 2023