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lHavokl
Arizona, United States
lHavokl
Gender
Female
About me
Not looking for ANYTHING right now, I still have way too much on my plate. Just here for interaction, like minded hobbies, and or interests.
42, married, I have children, a 9-5 job(actually 10 hrs but who's counting?), and responsibilities. I'm a gamer(currently stuck on rivals) and I highly enjoy reading and sketching once in a while. I love my alone time, helps to unwind and think without interruption. I'm the GM to a restaurant inside a pretty large and well known deisel travel center company (fancy gas station). I'm pretty mellow and down to earth, however that doesn't mean I'm a pushover and let BS fly. Approach me in good humor, calmly and I will return the efforts. Be aggressive and overbearing I will match your energy and then some. Messages are welcome and encouraged, you are more than welcome to ask anything you want, that doesn't mean you are entitled to all my information. I will try my best to answer all messages, but if at any point I leave you on read (if you can see that...I dunno)that doesn't mean I'm ignoring you, it means I have a life and shit to do, same as you. We're adults, the whole "left on read" whining is stupid get over it. Intelligence is a turn on, also very helpful when making connections and conversations instead of meaninglessness small talk( can't do it, kills brain cells) I have my preferences when it comes to physical apperance, ethnicity, and age. I will not apologize or be rediculed for it. I suppose I'm somewhat shallow to a point(I mean, I gots to find you pretty) if you choose to deny and say you're not? (Sure, live in your delusion who am I to burst your bubble) Everyone has their preferences, and it's ok, I would want to be pleasing to your eyes and vice versa, if I'm not? I'll be fine, not the end of the world. I have a thing for voices and intellect, I have been known to develop feelings for someone I mentally click with, not ever laying my eyes on them, don't know, can't explain it. Usually, the deep voice follows with this, so it's a win win? Anyways, if you have questions or wish to know more by all means, hit me up. Oh yeah, social media and selfies are a no-go until I know you better, I value my privacy and will extend the same courtesy to you. K, thanks.
"Broken, flawed, and just human."
"Penny for your poison, a dollar for the pain"
42, married, I have children, a 9-5 job(actually 10 hrs but who's counting?), and responsibilities. I'm a gamer(currently stuck on rivals) and I highly enjoy reading and sketching once in a while. I love my alone time, helps to unwind and think without interruption. I'm the GM to a restaurant inside a pretty large and well known deisel travel center company (fancy gas station). I'm pretty mellow and down to earth, however that doesn't mean I'm a pushover and let BS fly. Approach me in good humor, calmly and I will return the efforts. Be aggressive and overbearing I will match your energy and then some. Messages are welcome and encouraged, you are more than welcome to ask anything you want, that doesn't mean you are entitled to all my information. I will try my best to answer all messages, but if at any point I leave you on read (if you can see that...I dunno)that doesn't mean I'm ignoring you, it means I have a life and shit to do, same as you. We're adults, the whole "left on read" whining is stupid get over it. Intelligence is a turn on, also very helpful when making connections and conversations instead of meaninglessness small talk( can't do it, kills brain cells) I have my preferences when it comes to physical apperance, ethnicity, and age. I will not apologize or be rediculed for it. I suppose I'm somewhat shallow to a point(I mean, I gots to find you pretty) if you choose to deny and say you're not? (Sure, live in your delusion who am I to burst your bubble) Everyone has their preferences, and it's ok, I would want to be pleasing to your eyes and vice versa, if I'm not? I'll be fine, not the end of the world. I have a thing for voices and intellect, I have been known to develop feelings for someone I mentally click with, not ever laying my eyes on them, don't know, can't explain it. Usually, the deep voice follows with this, so it's a win win? Anyways, if you have questions or wish to know more by all means, hit me up. Oh yeah, social media and selfies are a no-go until I know you better, I value my privacy and will extend the same courtesy to you. K, thanks.
"Broken, flawed, and just human."
"Penny for your poison, a dollar for the pain"
BDSM and me
All of my interactions have been online only( be aware that this may be the only form I can offer). Having actual physical experience is kinda hard, with my hectic schedule and other responsibilities. Am I open to it? possibly?
** I am NOT a sub. NO, I will not attempt to sub for anyone nor am I interested to explore it. **
** I am NOT a sub. NO, I will not attempt to sub for anyone nor am I interested to explore it. **
Limits
I'm pretty open and will compromise to make the relationship work, what I may think is odd may not be for you but we can talk about it and find a middle ground.
What's new
Being in your 40's sucks, you find new aches every day. However, I'm aging quite well. 😅
Member since
Jan 12, 2023