Sassily James
sub female

Kentucky, United States
Age
34
Relationship status
Single
About me
     I'm in a rather unique position in life where I can roll the dice on where I'd like to live next. For a traveller such as myself, it's thrilling and has me dreaming of the kinkiest of world tours. Instead, I figured I'd settled down on my couch and aim for the grander goal of finding the person who makes me tick. Maybe, I'll just go there if he'll have me.

     I'm a difficult person. Eager to please, extremely sweet, and will give my all.. but I don't like change, and I like things done my very specific way. Sometimes, these ways make sense, and sometimes they're a safety blanket. Because I know myself well, communication is a non-negotiable foundation in my dynamic.
BDSM and me
The pretty version.


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I'm a sadomasochistic brattling bubbling along the surface. What hides below is for the hunter.

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For those that travel, I'm three left turns in the right direction, so pack well as there's no doubt that we're about to get lost.
     I'm not naturally subservient nor am I looking to be tamed, but I love the challenge of driving towards that ideal. Our playlist isn't going to perfection but chaos. The Monkees to Metallica. I don't have the desire to be someone's little girl or barbie, either, regardless of how fun it is to play dress up. Leather and lace doesn't count. I daydream of tangible things rather than blockchains and soundbytes as much as I play with the latter. I'm not claiming to be just any princess, though, so if live grenades and their proper protocols are your bag, then you just might be the compass needed for this road trip.
Can you figure out where we're going and what I am without having the answer handed to you?
Can you?
 
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Limits
x Hard limits: Scat, burning, and immobile gags.

x Needles, face slapping, face fucking, and some suspension are negotiable with care.

x I'm experienced, and I expect the same. However, I haven't played in a while, so my tolerance is unknown. 

x As much as I love educating, I can't do that for someone with whom I'm in a dynamic. Apologies, no budging. 

x I'm not interested in virtual play unless we're establishing a foundation of reality through that particular connection.
What's new
Quite happily taken and (still) living mostly on that other site. Though, a little birdie whistles a tune of yet another nest as well. It might cost you a worm or two, however, to live there. I'll do my best, though, to continue to post local events and what writings and thoughts I have here as well. I'm just much busier with my community outside of the internet now. I'll try to not make such a habit of disappearing.
Update date
Mar 12, 2023
Member since
Feb 16, 2023
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