I am a well educated, mannerly and articulate female (s) in my 40's and from Ireland. I am told that I am considered attractive, but beauty is, after all, in the eye of the beholder.
I am relatively new to this side of myself (three years) and I believe that a huge part of any worthwhile D/s dynamic is down to that elusive mental connection. It really is all about having my mind decompressed and wanting to please and obey and get things right for my Sir. I thrive on rules, structure and eye contact and I always endeavour to do as I am instructed. I dislike consequences, hence I strive to get things just right. I realise, however, that discipline comes with the territory and learning Sir's ways.
Respect, Intelligence and manners are really important to me in my D and if he doesn't have this, he is not the one for me. I am respectful and patient and expect the same in return from a new D.
My needs and limitations are subject to each individual connection. Once told what is expected of me, I will either accept it, or discuss if it is not within my limits. I am not a masochist.
I am told that I am good company and fun also -:) After all, that's allowed, isn't it??!
I am not interested in online under any circumstances. I do not need time wasters. I need to stand before and learn Sir's ways, but only after we have established a strong connection. So please do not contact me if this is what you want online. I won't be enticed in to the promise of "online to start and see where we go...' . This is not for me. I am quite prepared to travel if you are prepared to do likewise.
Thank you for reading.