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notsosimpledom male
United States
notsosimple
Age
45
About me
New to Cage, but not D/s.
I’ve been away for a while, but it’s time for a return. I had given up on finding what I was looking for, but realized that walking away from something that’s ingrained in you isn’t so easy. I desire to find someone I connect with on mental and physical levels. Someone who desires to serve as much as I desire to lead. Someone who’s not afraid to trust and step outside of her comfort zone at times.
As for the stage that I am looking within, that’s the challenge. The thing is, I am married and only looking for something online. She’s a wonderful woman and wife, but does not share in my desires. I’ve tried on several occasions to have a discussion with her regarding my wants and needs, but it’s not who she is. I’ve tried to accept being vanilla on a full time basis, but the draw to who I really am is too strong to ignore. So, if you are someone who is capable of accepting those things, please shoot me a message.
No, I am not looking for a sugar baby and I will not entertain those intent on wasting time. If your profile is blank, it’s highly unlikely you’ll get a reply.
Blind friend requests will be ignored.
What I am looking for:
A genuine connection
Those who can communicate and contribute to a conversation (yes, I will take the time to get to know you and expect the same in return)
Honesty and transparency
Someone who has a solid sense of herself
Eagerness
Vulnerability
Intelligence
What I am NOT looking for:
Those with fake profiles (they’re easy to spot)
Time wasters
Those who misrepresent themselves in their profile
Those who lack the ability to communicate (having to ask 20 questions to start or maintain a conversation is painful)
Those who think they know everything
Judgmental people (if you don’t like my profile, move along)
As you can tell by this point, I’m very honest with who I am and what I want. While others may cast judgment, if you consider yourself a BBW, I’m sure you are beautiful, but you wouldn’t be my type. I find myself self attracted to those who are slim to average.
I’ve been away for a while, but it’s time for a return. I had given up on finding what I was looking for, but realized that walking away from something that’s ingrained in you isn’t so easy. I desire to find someone I connect with on mental and physical levels. Someone who desires to serve as much as I desire to lead. Someone who’s not afraid to trust and step outside of her comfort zone at times.
As for the stage that I am looking within, that’s the challenge. The thing is, I am married and only looking for something online. She’s a wonderful woman and wife, but does not share in my desires. I’ve tried on several occasions to have a discussion with her regarding my wants and needs, but it’s not who she is. I’ve tried to accept being vanilla on a full time basis, but the draw to who I really am is too strong to ignore. So, if you are someone who is capable of accepting those things, please shoot me a message.
No, I am not looking for a sugar baby and I will not entertain those intent on wasting time. If your profile is blank, it’s highly unlikely you’ll get a reply.
Blind friend requests will be ignored.
What I am looking for:
A genuine connection
Those who can communicate and contribute to a conversation (yes, I will take the time to get to know you and expect the same in return)
Honesty and transparency
Someone who has a solid sense of herself
Eagerness
Vulnerability
Intelligence
What I am NOT looking for:
Those with fake profiles (they’re easy to spot)
Time wasters
Those who misrepresent themselves in their profile
Those who lack the ability to communicate (having to ask 20 questions to start or maintain a conversation is painful)
Those who think they know everything
Judgmental people (if you don’t like my profile, move along)
As you can tell by this point, I’m very honest with who I am and what I want. While others may cast judgment, if you consider yourself a BBW, I’m sure you are beautiful, but you wouldn’t be my type. I find myself self attracted to those who are slim to average.
Limits
Minimal
Update date
Dec 10, 2023
Member since
Apr 19, 2023