VernonKingsville

Premium
Victoria, Australia
Gender
Male
Voice
Age
61
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me

I’m a work in progress…

…as we all are.

So here we go, I’m an Hedonist Dom trained in Tantra, massage and spanking over the last 40 years. I’m a Sadist like my father before me, a genetically wired Dominant.

As a Professor Dom I teach wellbeing in the BDSM community, as a Doc Dom I research and present information on health in our chosen lifestyle specialising in induced lactation, female squirting and spanking therapy. As a Daddy, I have a wonderful two flames relationship with my stubborn baby girl sub, I’m Papa to other subs. 

I'm married to my sub and I’m a professional who has studied human psychology to help my clients manipulate their customers behaviour. This has developed a genuine interest in the application of corporal punishment and old-fashioned discipline as a means of releasing guilt or to curb poor behaviour in the subs I scene with.

The universe is open to me, but I cannot control it, so life is a journey of learning, discovery and enlightenment. I crave intelligent connections, they are a rare find…I’m high maintenance, possessive and curious. Demanding, l am, especially with high expectations of you, but I can be patient.

Many parts of my life are composed from other’s stories, writings and ideas. So, don’t be surprised if you find sections of your thoughts here. 

BDSM and me
Sex I’ve been involved with and have had a keen interest in since the age of five, first mutual masturbation at eight, first intercourse at 11, first affair with a teacher at 14…blah blah blah.

My first corporal punishment was a ruler across my knuckles, then a canning or two all at primary school. At public school I was also caned and slippered. My parents never hit me, until one night my father punched me, I through him out of the house.

At twenty I was taught the delights of the path of enlightenment, through a life of sexual desire and BDSM. It is true that I’m 60, but my mind is far wiser, my soul is eternal and my actions and looks of someone in their 50’s. I have no sexual desire for males, but am happy to scene with any gender/sexuality/person. 

“Poor is the pupil who does not surpass his master.”
Leonardo Da Vinci

It’s a cliche I know but…
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
100% Voyeur
100% Exhibitionist
96% Master/Mistress
93% Brat tamer
92% Non-monogamist
88% Degrader
84% Sadist
75% Experimentalist
50% Owner
42% Primal (Hunter)
19% Vanilla
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Switch
Limits

HARD LIMITS 

Scat in any form.
Roman showers.
Adult babies.
Substance use.
Anal on me.
Wrestling. 
Bad hygiene. 
submissiveness from me
Any discussion or fantasy that involves animals.

Bad Grammar - Using 'text speak' and my interest wanes.  I’ve spent a lifetime reading, writing, travelling and interacting with the world.  Please converse with me as an adult, and we'll get along just fine.

Exact scripted scenes - I’m pleased to partake in any particular interest, but if you’re into an exact sequences of words, events and actions, then I find that cramps my engagement in an exchange.

Socks - I’m not a foot fetishist but feel it Is uncouth to wander around in socks, and slippers for that matter. Shoes or bare feet only. (Weird one I know, but then we’re all strange or we wouldn’t be here). Not meaning to go on, but no to socks and sandals or slides, flip flops/jandles/thongs.

 

SOFT LIMITS

If you don’t make me think, laugh or cry, I don’t want to interact.

Upon physically meeting and getting on, I enjoy kissing.

Deep conversation is important to develop a relationship or we could just play.

Having a chat here with a member without a profile picture or pics on their profile is okay, initially, but becomes a bore very quickly. We’re here by choice. I'll give you some time to get comfortable communicating with me but after a while, I need to know to whom I am chatting to. I need to know that you are real. 

There are many other things that I do and don't like, do and don’t do. Some I’ve forgotten and some I don’t know about, so of course you can suggest something or ask me, I will let you know if it sounds appealing or not. I may not appear to be, but I’m very approachable.

On the other hand, if you are not attracted to my aura, body or mind, yay for you.  Just know that, I need to be attracted to you, in some way, in order to contemplate a relationship of any kind.

What's new
My sub is under a program of induced lactation.

Have you ever wondered what you can achieve? Felt a need to release guilty feelings? Do you need to be accountable? I'm experienced, approachable and discreet and can guide you, firmly, in the direction you want to go.

If I don’t respond to your message, it’s probably because you think “hi” is a quality message, of course it’s not, you used the subject line as the message body, or, assume I won’t look at your profile and notice that you’ve put zero effort into it. I will look, I do notice.
Update date
May 24, 2023
Member since
May 1, 2023
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