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sadist male

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Germany
Relationship status
Single
About me
Teddy bear, Sweety, Viking, clever guy, gentle giant, Lord and Master, the best cook in the World, awesome guy...

Those are a few of the more flattering names i have been called throughout my life. None of them are able to capture completely what makes me, well, me but they all have some truth to it. 

I’m looking for someone I’m not only sharing my kinks with but someone who can appreciate me for my other qualities. That’s why I’m trying to tell you more about myself and not only me the Dom.

 

It’s hard to categorize people but if you would try to do it with me loyal and helpful would come up. As would lazy. Probably. If you need me I’m there. I’m the guy that stays late when you need to get that moving truck empty.

I’m loyal towards good friends and partners. It’s sad that this can be counted as a positive trait. I believe it should just be the baseline. At least this way I’m trying to lead as an example somewhere.

I don’t let just anyone get close to me. My inner circle is small but they know i can be trusted and relied upon.

I also have a mean improvisational talent and a tendency to overdoing things. When i wanted to add a suspension point to the ceiling I ended up building a ceiling mounted track with a movable suspension point. At least now i know it will definitely hold.

In a pinch i might still just grab my belt to keep your hands fixated though.

Keeping in line with the one word descriptions you could use “cuddly” or “cozy” and wouldn’t be far of the mark. It isn’t the ideal image of a man you see in television or ads but that’s a hard standard to hold anyway. I am working on slowly getting in better shape but for now you get me the way I am. With all the small flaws, blemishes and dents life grants you throughout your journey.

I’m introverted, spontaneous, love to go out, love to stay in, a passionate movie goer, I swim and love to go on walks and many more. You know how it is when you write a list like that. You never manage to put everything down.

I’m usually up for anything at least once. You can always figure out after if you liked it.

I need time for myself. It’s not malicious or trying to be rude. I’m just trying to recharge from all that social interaction and there is only a small list of people i can tolerate near me during that time.

If you think you know what’s going on inside me, congratulations! You know more than i do.

Oh, and I’m also a huge sadist

BDSM and me
I am a sadist. Four words that say a lot and at the same time nothing at all. That’s why I’m trying to differentiate it a bit.

It is not the pain directly that turns me on. It is my partner's willingness to accept the pain just because i want her to. If she likes pain or just endures it for my pleasure is not relevant. Both variants are exciting in their own ways.

I enjoy pushing boundaries with my partner. To make her beg for more. Knowing i can take what i want and she is giving it to me willingly instead of having to punish her.

Therefore punishment is not my preferred way to lead in a D/s relationship. Punishment needs to be administered if it is warranted but i would rather have my sub be a slave of my affection than my whip.

I take care of my Sub. It’s not “undignified” to give her a massage after a hard day or give her a break to relax while I’m taking care of the chores (although it can be fun to pretend that it is.)

I don’t mind going down on my knees in front of my partner to take care of her. Devotion happens in the head and a slightly uncomfortable sitting position doesn’t change that fact. (But it looks pretty when shoe does it :D)

Submission means to give not to take. Why should i take what i want? I prefer to show you that I’m the person you want to give it to.

Limits
Age play, Scat and permanent markings
Update date
Feb 21, 2018
Member since
Dec 22, 2017
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