Duchess Alena
sub female

California, United States
Relationship status
Single
About me
I’m a 43 year old woman hoping that the old adage about not being able to teach an old dog new tricks is wrong. Ugh, that makes me sound like I think of myself as a dog, right?! I sing when I’m anxious. Ok, I sing all the time, really. Unless I’m specifically asked to sing, then I clam right up! I try to be considerate and kind, but I also have a temper when someone is being truly disrespectful. I love to laugh and make others laugh, I’m curious, I swear like a sailor, and I read like it’s my job! God, it would solve so many things for me if reading WAS my job!
BDSM and me
I’m new to this community and hoping to find a safe place to explore this side of myself, maybe learn some things about myself in the process. Trust is so important to me. It’s hard to trust someone enough to tell them I think I’m submissive without worrying that they’ll take advantage of that, so I haven’t really felt comfortable exploring this aspect of myself until now.
Limits
Blood, knives, scat, urine, children. Nothing illegal. No permanent marking. No degradation/humiliation.
Update date
Jul 19, 2023
Member since
Jul 19, 2023
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