A study in contrasts I suppose.
Almost pathological in my need for privacy but valiantly trying to figure out this 'open and honest’ thing.
A logophile with a penchant for pedestrian crude speak. Fuck, yeah.
Pleonastic and loquacious, why use fewer words when there are so many interesting ones out there?
Tautological but no matter how many times I restate an idea sometimes you just have no idea what the goddamned point is.
Self-depreciating whilst being a pretentious pointy headed bag of wind.
Occasionally witty, more frequently jejune.
Naive yet jaded.
Empathic but socially inept.
Always been a Switch, used to lean much heavier to the submissive, particularly in relationships as opposed to play, but I'm enjoying the innate Domme-ness that is manifesting itself now too. I do tend to be a sensual, nurturing Dominant. In a submissive role my preference is to be treated much the same, however, more intense play sessions can be fun on occasion.
Also have always identified as bisexual because I am attracted to and have been involved with both women and men for play and in relationships. However I was recently reading an article about pan versus omni and I think omnisexual probably fits me perfectly. 'I'm not gender-blind, I notice gender but simply do not care!' (ty to -Boop for phrasing it so well on a gif)
Things I particularly like include (but not limited to!): Restraining/bondage, including a fascination with Shibari; impact play, bare handed OTK is a personal favorite; rougher sex; anal play; oral worship; toys in general.
Not really much of a masochist and definitely not a sadist, so no one is getting chained to a wall and bullwhipped! Nope, not happening. (More power to you if that's your thing though!)
Also, no scat or watersports. Breath, gun, knife, and needle play are truly terrifying for me (and not in a good way).
Mind control/hypnosis is a Hard Limit for me. Nobody is going to fuck with my brain. Just. Can't. Go. There.
I'm not overly fond of heavy degradation/humiliation, particularly outside of a scene. (giving or receiving)
I haven't found caning or whipping to be something I can take (yet?). Caging, or similar type of confinement aren't appealing to me.
Finally starting to feel a bit more like myself. It's been a tough few months (oh, who the hell am I kidding, it's been a tough couple decades…) but I'm ready to be back in the Cage with my peeps now. I missed you wonderfully kinky folks and our community. Thank you, a million times, to everyone that lent me their support, strength, care, friendship, and humor. Wasn't always able to respond but I read your words and they brought me comfort, even if it was just taking the ol mind off my ridiculous circumstances for a little while. I'm so looking forward to interacting with you all again. (Sorry in advance...quite sure some are thinking 'shit, she back...more prattling and stupid Henna-isms, greeeaaaattt.’) To folks I have not yet had pleasure of meeting (damn, where'd all these new people come from?!?)i'Hello, I'm Henna!'.ally