switch female

United States
About me

I am...

Almost pathological in my desire for privacy but the firewalls have started to slowly dismantle themselves, again...


A logophile with a penchant for pedestrian crude speak. Fuck, yeah.

Pleonastic and loquacious, why use fewer words when there are so many interesting ones out there?

Tautological and no matter how many times I restate an idea sometimes you just have no idea what the goddamned point is.

Self-depreciating but proud, yes, sometimes overly so.

Occasionally witty, more frequently jejune.

No longer naive, and wicked disappointed the behavior of others negatively influenced my own. I expect more from myself than that.


I like…

Language and words fascinate me in general, sex in most manifestations particularly the kinky ones, adrenaline and endorphin stimulation in many varying forms.

I need...

Not really sure at this juncture. Came to Cage trying to find something I used to know and discovered saudade.

BDSM and me

For as long as I can remember I've been a bit deviant and wanted to experience life's available pleasures. So yes, I'm a hedonist.

Still consider myself a Switch. I used to lean heavier to the submissive but the innate Domme-ness that is manifesting itself feels like a more comfortable state atm.

Have also always identified as bisexual because I am attracted to and have been involved with both men and women for play and in relationships.

Definitely more poly-minded than mono, but not opposed to either dynamic on principle.

Things I particularly like include (but not limited to): Restraining/bondage, including a fascination with Shibari; impact play, bare handed OTK is a personal favorite; rougher sex; anal play; oral worship; toys in general.

There were a few people special to me here but I don't see taking on or collaring anyone of my own, or belonging to anyone else, in the cards right now. Not through any fault of theirs at all, but Life is a difficult bitch at times. And apparently I've thoroughly disturbed her sensibilities.

Hard Limits - the usual - no kids, real animals, severe injury.

Fear or predicament play is of no interest atall.

Mind control/hypnosis is a Hard Limit for me. Nobody is going to fuck with my brain. Just. Can't. Go. There.

Not fond of harsh degradation/ humiliation, particularly outside of a scene.
What's new

We were all looking for something, the someone or someones that we could lurch forward with a few more steps in the beautiful macabre dance...

The old girl is still popping in and wandering about periodically but with work, and Life in general, it's sporadic and it may take me a bit to return messages but I try. Oh, and btw, I do tend to log in to Cage while I'm working but am not necessarily actively on the page. No, I'm not intentionally ignoring anyone.

Be well...

Update date
Friday, June 14, 2019
Member since
Friday, December 29, 2017
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