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dom male

Premium, Online
United States
Relationship status
Single
About me
My life is filled with adventure and I love it. Emotionally, physically and financially stable, humble and balanced. Patient. Educated.  Hobbies:Motorcycle, dog parks, mountain biking, hiking, climbing, kite boarding. Been to 29 countries. Planning to visit many more.
I would like to find a honest, loyal, and committed sub/slave to travel with me and enjoy the finer points of life.... Together.
BDSM and me
Bdsm is different for everyone. I have my likes and dislikes, preferences. However depending on who I'm with, I recognize the need to approach bdsm differently based on that persons likes, dislikes, and preferences. I realize that my dynamic with one person won't be the same as it would be with another. 
I am able to adapt. 

Until a relationship is recognized and communicated by both parties, I will not pretend to be your Dom. "Even if the house is on fire". That being, if I come off as not so dominant, thats why. You gotta be special to see my most dominant traits. 

I am looking for someone capable of recognizing a good vibe between us and taking action to make it a long term relationship starting with voice, then video calls and moving into a semi vanilla date. Then moving on from there.

Im into rope bondage/ shibari. I've had decent amount of opportunities to practice and my imagination is running wild with ideas for new ties. Predicament bondage is a lot of fun. Especially once trust is built. 
(Currently lacking a rope bunny).

Feel free to ask me anything about anything. I will answer thoroughly and honestly. I am not here to waste anyone's time by being something I'm not....
I expect a certain amount of vetting.
Limits
Every single aspect of life from drinking water to 10 foot whips has a limit. 

Too much of any one thing reaches a limit.

Some people say everything in moderation including moderation itself. BUT,,,,,,, some things we want what we want and we want a LOT of it.....
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What's new
I'm a very social person. I will and can communicate with just about anyone about just about any topic...
However please know that just because we talk does not mean I am your Dom... Do not expect me to assert ANY dominance upon you until:

We have taken time to understand each others wants, needs, limits and desires. 
AND,
We have DIRECTLY agreed upon some type of verbal or written arrangement.

11/10/23
Domination is not hate, or anger, or being mean. It’s fulfilling someone’s desire, at their request, and stopping when asked.
It requires compassion, generosity & selflessness to do it properly.
 
Update date
Jun 21, 2024
Member since
Aug 7, 2023
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