In a monogamous relationship
I'm 34 and in a monogamous (vanilla) marriage.
I am ONLY submissive sexually, NOT at ALL in "real life". Quite the opposite in fact. This will sound harsh, but it seems like a lot of "doms" do not have actual dominant personalities, and are trying to hold on to the facade of their power in absurd ways. I'm not in to that. I definitely lean submissive sexually, but I can also see the appeal in dominating occasionally. I have a bit of a sadistic streak.
Nothing underage. (Don't be gross.) There's some more.
I'm not really looking for anything at the moment.