nightflower

sub female

32

Single

Im 31 and a 5'4 female, I do prefer soft/daddy doms. I am a soft person, some have said I have big emotions, and it takes a lot for me to fully trust someone, I have experienced the bad that other people are capable of. I do like to make new friends, and if there is someone who I find myself compatible with, I will be more open to them. But I like to keep myself reserved and more formal during the beginnings of communication.

I do like books, I find myself with a collection of books that caught my interest that I am still trying to get through, slowly but surely. I like a variety of music. Different genres from different artists, from classical instrument to edm to pop and some metal. I do admit that I do listen to only a couple of songs from some artists, and not a devoted fan. Most music is in different playlists, so I dont belong to any specific artist fanbases.

I havent been able to watch much movies or tv shows lately, but I try to watch a new movie here or there. Or binge watch a new or old tv show.
I do like video games, they are a good escape if life gets too stressful. I used to play pvp games, but have outgrown them. I mainly play games for the story or just for the fun of it. Minecraft, single player games like mass effect or gears of war. Destiny 2 is the main multiplayer game I play. And no matter what is said about it, I do still find it fun and always excited for new content.

Just a sidenote, my previous dom liked bigger women, so I am a little bit pudgy and squishy, but I am working to lose that gained weight currently. So those with weight and size preferences, I do have a little bit of weight.

Ive only been a sub for three years now, discovered that side of myself in a chatroom while conversing with a dom. Im not new new to being a sub, Ive done my own research and have had a good online Dom and healthy dynamic. Only one dom for two years and no in person experience. But with the right person, I do wish to have in person experiences in a long term dynamic.

I dont like to jump straight into sexual elements and information with others, Im not here to jump into "lets get horny" sort of conversations, I like to have a genuine connection and trust in someone before going any further into deeply personal conversations.
I am also firm on the knowledge that I cannot fulfill a slave role. My personality, emotions, and mentality could not fit in a slave role. So I am not looking for a master/owner. I am not a slave.
As I have been asked by others in messages, I do not send pictures to just anyone who asks, and pictures of my "curves" or anything else are reserved only for the one who would be my Dom.

From previous experiences, I will no longer be responding to messages such as "sup" or "Hi", I have found messages that contain less than five words do not carry genuine conversation or effort put into any further responses, so I will no longer be entertaining them.

From a previous short online experience with a younger and inexperienced dom, I know that I prefer someone older but still closer to my age, as I have found there is no real connection or anything in common with someone younger, and being a bit inexperienced myself, I am not willing to try to teach or learn along with someone who doesnt know what they are doing or still learning about themselves as a dom. I am a good follower and can put on a brave "leader" face when I have to, but I am not a teacher, and I am not good at pretending to be a teacher.

No humiliation of any kind or degradation, slave roles, bodily fluids, ageplay.

Apr 2, 2024

Sep 26, 2023