BEFORE YOU REPLY - read carefully. If you are game, let me know and we'll see where it goes.
If you disagree with anything and are not interested, that's fine too. But, be mature about it and just move on. I don't need you to write to me to say you disagree. Save us both the time of typing and reading something that won't matter.
If I am too old for you - just move on, I don't need you to tell me.
First off.... I DO NOT expect nor request nudes at any time, unless the woman chooses to send them. I "respect" women. I probably won't be making the first contact, but even if I do - and things don't work out, I won't hit you with a barrage of name calling and insults for any reason like some guys seem to do. I will NOT automatically assume you are my property. Anyone who does any of the above is a fake - probably living with momma, still breastfeeding. Or is trying to get some action on the side when his woman is at work or asleep. But, immature nonetheless. Many are nothing but picture collectors. Just wanting jerk off material. Don't fall for it, or let them get to you.
I'm NOT being judgemental in what I am looking for, it's just my preference. Live how you want, but I have certain things I am looking for (or not) in someone. That's my choice, every bit as much as it is yours to choose to participate or not.
The person who chooses to respond, must be a birth female. No other sexual assignment will be accepted. Sorry!!!
Now - for the details.....
Older guy, still pretty mentally with it. A relatively easy to please, easy going person. Looking for "A"/"ONE" good woman. I can be content with ONE.
Now, THIS PART IS NOT SET IN STONE, so read carefully. I know because of the times, some people have it rough. Homeless, facing homelessness, in a Domestic Shelter from an abusive relationship. I've heard some horror stories about the shelters. SO... IF POSSIBLE, I'd like to get "up to" three women, for a "family" set up. Structured like the military of sorts, so you will have tasks to do, drills (with me, or whoever I may choose), free time - with some relaxed rules. Ride or Die types, willing to stand by "me".
IF more than one, each will get equal attention, like a Dad to his many daughters. I'd expect you all to get along like a well tuned machine, as a "family" and "best friends". So, bisexual would be very well fitting, and desired.
I'm pretty much "old school", the man is head of the house, the woman looks to - and obeys him and does the womanly thing. Likewise with children obeying and doing as they're told.
I can be - a Fatherly figure, husbandly figure, the best friend you have ever had, a confidant. IF we have a "family" structure, we all stick together. What we discuss among us, even and especially the most private of things, goes no where. We may not always agree, but we'll talk freely, respect each other's opinion. That seems to be a forgotten trait. Compromise where and when possible, works wonders!!!!!
She (they - if a family) must also be able to step up and take care of business if I become incapacitated for some reason. Pay the bills on time. Be savvy dealing with people as I would, so as not to be taken advantage of. AND be able to step in and assist me if I ask, doing whatever. Able to follow simple instructions.
I have known people who don't know how to write a check, pay a bill online or on time, don't know how to deal with people to keep from getting screwed over. I can't have anyone like that. That stuff is simple basics of life, any adult should know.
I'm open to age for the most part, even any past convictions (can be discussed). Just NO drugs, smoking, pot. Medicinal Cannabis is ok Alcohol use kept in check. "PREFER" "few" if any tattoos or piercings. Small ones ok, just not more ink than natural beauty. I am old school - I prefer the woman's natural born beauty. I'm not even big on makeup. Though traces are ok. Let me see YOU!!!!!! The person without all the trimming.
Dressed as I say - daily. Certain things keep me interested all day, every day!!!! I prefer NO "animal" type personalities. NO "little" personalities. NO brats. Very "brief" acts can be overlooked, such as if you're horny and meow in my ear, or maybe as I'm doing foreplay on you. I'm willing to compromise on tatts and piercings IF your personality and the other desires are met. The wrapper isn't as important as the heart, personality.
I seek IRL ONLY.
If you are facing homelessness, eviction, leaving a bad situation, looking for a new start, LOOK ME UP. Just leave the baggage/drama where you currently are, don't bring it with you. That's why I was thinking a "family", to help out a couple girls who might have it tough in these times. We all work together and it'll leave less stress, less time doing the mundane, more time to enjoy or relax.
I'm willing to share a picture "IF" we start conversing, but not publicly posted. I have my personal reasons for that. NO, I'M NOT wanted by the law. Seriously, I can verify easily, no criminal history. I have no problem doing that. A position I currently hold really doesn't allow me to have a questionable past.
Actually, you "really" need to be interested in what I am offering - ready, desirous to be here with me, to even take the time to talk. I'm not into curiosity seekers. I can usually tell who is serious. I've been around the block enough.
I WILL NOT send money to anyone. Been there, done that. No more.... If you need assistance coming here, I'll help reimburse the lender any money amount to get here, "once you are here". I've sent money before, even had prepaid bus tickets waiting, for no shows. So, I'm not blindly sending money, no matter how convincing you try to be. If that's your plan, save both our time, and go away. You will probably be reported as a scammer too.
Hopefully you have a valid driver's license and clean driving record - to assist in driving, doing errands, whatever. BUT....
While I currently live in a house, I have a plan to do some trips in a truck converted into a camper/motorhome. MAYBE going "off the grid" altogether to live a simpler life. Less work for all. Relaxed, carefree.... So, you must be open to that also.
In the end, you pretty much have to be free of any obligations so you can come here and begin your new life. Be non materialistic, low maintenance. No children preferred (can be discussed), no job or monetary obligations to hold you back, etc... NO EX or other baggage brought with you. Come here expecting to start a new life, turn a new page, a new chapter. Leave the former behind you.
You will be safe here, low crime area, non abusive guy (I'm not into "abuse"), be respected, welcomed.
By me - you will be appreciated, respected, adored, idolized, loved, wanted.
So.... the rest is up to you. You know what I am looking for. If open to it "ALL", get back to me. If you have "ANY" reservations at all - don't waste either of our time.
One more little tidbit.... I'm one of the most loving, caring guys you could ever hope to know. But, you won't know that unless you try. AND..... I LOVE to spoil the woman with special attention when possible. Stuff probably no one else has ever offered to do, for her comfort and relaxation. But, that's a secret for when you might decide to enter into a relationship with me.
I DON'T "NEED" to have more than one woman, but I'm just trying to help a few out, as I help us all. I'm good with ONE, if that's what it takes.
Hurry before the offer is pulled. I won't be on here forever - too many players.
Oh, as for the Caps.... I'm not yelling. Some people just seem to overlook things - if they even bother to read it at all.