O Fortuna

sub trans woman

Single

Just your average vaguely pretty androgynous trans girl, trying to find new friends and perspectives within BDSM. 24, living in the midwest.

I've never been a career-oriented or materially passionate person, and my interests ebb and flow. I'm totally content living in somebody's shadow, because offering your love, service, and companionship to a group of your choice is the most consistent and genuine pleasure I have.

(I also like doing nerd shit but only on my own terms)
":3"

I'm a lifestyle submissive, very much into high control. I don't like making decisions and I love to serve! I'm not helpless by any means, I'd just prefer to live beneath somebody else. I'm a pretty scattered person so I like somebody who can hold me accountable, rewarding me for when I do well and punishing me when I don't do something I'm perfectly capable of doing. I thrive under restrictions, structure, and discipline. Maybe I'd do well in the military, but they don't let trans girls in there and there's probably a lot less kinky sex. I love being in chastity (I maintain that being caged is the only good part of having a penis), being degraded, praised, railed and denied. Lift me up, tear me down, my mind and body are yours. I love having my rights taken from me; language restriction, needing permission to use furniture or to even eat the meals I cook for you.

So, what do I bring to a dynamic? Genuine service! I LOVE doing maid things. Let me take care of all that menial day-to-day stuff for you, you've got more important things to focus your mind on. I'm not career oriented but I can definitely contribute to finances, I'd even be willing to let my dom have total control of my finances, but only AFTER I get collared. In exchange for the structure I need to thrive, you become the focus of my development. Any skill you want me to have, I will work to obtain. My life will completely revolve around pleasing you, I will essentially be your slave.

I am technically a switch! But don't count on it. My switchy side is more representative of my ability to take the reins and be caring. I don't expect my dom to be strong all the time, I understand that they need emotional support and care as much as I do, and I am perfectly happy to provide that. However, if you're only interested in my dominant side, I will get bored very fast.

The only bodily fluid / byproduct I want on me is cum or spit. It may go in or on many places, but it may only be cum or spit. No ageplay, either.

Don't try to findom me before we're actually in a relationship. I will never, ever, ever, EVER pay for attention, conversation, affection, or sex. All of my interest in findom is strictly in the context of my dom controlling my finances, it is never 'payment.'

I always have a say in who I have sex with. I'm not free use.

I must ALWAYS have an 'out.' I will always be able to use a safeword, and in the case of me handing over my entire life to my dom, I need some sort of bail system that makes sure I can safely leave in case the worst happens.

Been doing more nerd shit, also playing through Shadow of the Erdtree.

Oct 27, 2023