I am new to the BDSM scene
I Am honest. This goes back a long way when I am new, my safety is at risk and I have to trust people- to keep me safe-- my reputation in the scientific community. I am an Dom. I won't do male. If you force me I will submit and Dom you in a very damaging way. I am preferably looking for a white female. My white guilt and any vulnerability about being guilted for putting that out there is pretty much gone.
I will add to this if I get no expression of interest