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jackdaws
Londonderry, Northern Ireland, United Kingdom
jackdaws
Gender
Male
Age
41
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
Just drifting from one idea to the next, from one existence to another, enjoying the journey and friends I make along the way.
I have been a student, of life and of computer science, engineering, and cooking. I am a full time carer for my disabled wife and so work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for little to no money... and I wouldn't change the job for anything, I love every minute I am with her. We are a polyamorous couple, but have been out of the dating game since 2005/6... so to say we are a little dusty and rusty is beyond an understatement.
I am an author, streamer, musician (not a good one), and I love to learn.
We are both into a huge variety of music genres, and love everything from Gaming (Xbox, Switch and PC for the time being) to Anime (has to be dubbed as she is partially sighted), and have a small community of gamers that we take care of like they are our children most of the time.
I was suggested this site as a method of getting to know a very special someone through her blogs, and decided it seems like a friendly (or feindly depending on your preferences) place to be.
If you want to speak to either me or DarkNisha to get to know us, feel free (she has her own profile now... I am so proud, they grow up so fast these days...)
I have been a student, of life and of computer science, engineering, and cooking. I am a full time carer for my disabled wife and so work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, for little to no money... and I wouldn't change the job for anything, I love every minute I am with her. We are a polyamorous couple, but have been out of the dating game since 2005/6... so to say we are a little dusty and rusty is beyond an understatement.
I am an author, streamer, musician (not a good one), and I love to learn.
We are both into a huge variety of music genres, and love everything from Gaming (Xbox, Switch and PC for the time being) to Anime (has to be dubbed as she is partially sighted), and have a small community of gamers that we take care of like they are our children most of the time.
I was suggested this site as a method of getting to know a very special someone through her blogs, and decided it seems like a friendly (or feindly depending on your preferences) place to be.
If you want to speak to either me or DarkNisha to get to know us, feel free (she has her own profile now... I am so proud, they grow up so fast these days...)
BDSM and me
Him: Pleasure Dom and Sadist (but only as long as the other person enjoys it), Synesthete (certain textures, textiles, or materials feel like either warm sunlight like silk PVC or Latex, others feel like the nutmeg grater on the back of a cheese grater that rarely ever gets used e.g. plastics, tin foil... so no tin foil hats with plastic lining for me), not finished discovering myself yet so have more to explore. Life is about learning, and BDSM has a LOT of learning.
Her (DarkNisha): Brat, Sub/dom, sadist and Masochist, she is a little and a medium, and basically a hodgepodge amazing mix of wonder and awe... (I might be slightly biased) she is also a little bitey...
Both: Fall for peoples minds more than their bodies, we love their souls and what makes them who they are. Speak to our soul, and you have our hearts.
Her (DarkNisha): Brat, Sub/dom, sadist and Masochist, she is a little and a medium, and basically a hodgepodge amazing mix of wonder and awe... (I might be slightly biased) she is also a little bitey...
Both: Fall for peoples minds more than their bodies, we love their souls and what makes them who they are. Speak to our soul, and you have our hearts.
Limits
many and varied, nothing illegal, nothing bodily fluid based (pee, blood) and no skat. No humiliation and no branding or permanent damage kinks.
CNC is out too.
CNC is out too.
Update date
Feb 5, 2024
Member since
Jan 24, 2024