FracturedPeaks

switch female

Coming back after some time away. Im almost 29 and generally over the year already. I'm looking to make some friends and have some fun discorse. I've learned recently that protecting my peace and mental heath is super important. I also have decided I don't want to be anyone's last choice. If you don't want me, totally fine. I'd rather blunt honesty than being hung by my toes while I wait. In general I prefer people to be open and blunt with me. Why have miscommunication when you can just talk right?

I've been involved in all of the this for about 11 years. I know what I want, but I also know that trying new things and learning is super important in BDSM. I'm a switch, though I lean towards submission. This was actually a huge challenge for me to admit at one point. It has been a long journy of self discovery that led me to realizng how much I could enjoy it. My entire journy into dominace and submission even helped be understand what I want in a marraige one day.

As a submissive i'm a baby girl and a brat. I enjoy being pampered and being allowed to act out, but I also love firm and caring restrictions. I find boundaries and structure really helpful and I love when someone can provide those things without shaming me for needing them. A lot of my kinks are related to deep personal parts of myself and my life experiences. If you aren't interested in the kind of connection that is required to engage in that then please don't message me. I'm looking for genuine connections and friends first and foremost.

As a Dominant I am a sadist and I like games. Anything to keep my submissive on their toes. I also like taking care of people and more than anything I want to make my submissive feel safe. I have less experience as a dom, and because of this I am very cautious being one. I will likely not engage in random scenes or quick play as a dom very often if ever. If you are a sub reaching out to me with interest don't expext me to just jump into it with you. Let’s try and be friends first :).

 

 

****So I've finally turn on the seeking function. If you’ve actually read my profile then here’s some guidelines for what I expect moving forwards If you mean to approach me. 

If you’re a dom, please don’t expect me to start anything with you right away. Also please read my profile. I’m not looking for a master and I don’t want to be a slave. If you can’t read my profile to see what kind of sub I am and what my preferences are, then we probably aren’t a good fit. 

If you’re a sub please don’t message me with honorifics or expecting any play right off the bat. Don’t be pushy or get pissed when I say no. I don’t owe you my time or attention. Please approach me as a person. Good manners will get you very far with me. 

To both, I’m always looking for new friends but if you are approaching me with intent to potentially have a relationship know I will ask a lot of questions and possible interrogate you. I don’t want a primarily online relationship. I need the physical connection with a dom/sub, so if you are unable to facilitate that with me then it just won’t happen. I’m not against the idea of traveling if I really make a connection, but I refuse to be only online. I’m not gonna waste anyone’s time and I hope you will do the same in return. Anyway, I look forward to what happens next. Good luck****

 

No Scat or illegal stuff. No needles.

As a side note I have bad adhd. If I vanish it's not because I'm trying to ghost anyone, it's because I closed the tab and completely forgot the website existed ?

Sep 4, 2024

Feb 9, 2024