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Thornton, Colorado, United States
TheMountainWinsAgain
Age
48
Relationship status
Single
About me
Fully vaccinated, boosted, and still happy to wear a mask when wise
Head of a punk rock poet, rockin the Dad bod in boots and kilt. Heart of a romantic. Soul of a cowboy. A backpack full of wanderlust, pockets full of dreams, and a field book with a plan.
I am a natural caregiver at heart. A protector. A sensualist. A pleasurer. There is no greater, more sublime, more satisfying joy, than giving you what you need from the Top. I get off only when you do.
Not looking for the kind of mind games that hurt but always up for mind games that make one laugh, gasp, and leave you in breathless wonder.
A mountain boy born and bred in the Boulder Free Zone, but with a taste for the finer things. Ever have butterflied lobster tails on a bed of lemon and dill pasta cooked for you on a Coleman stove above timberline with a nice white wine?
Have my own very successful career of twenty five plus years as a Learning & Development tech leader that I love but I work to live, not live to work. ?Not a sugar daddy
An avid DIY enthusiast, woodworker, leather crafter, doodler, and maker.
I garden, brew beer, mead, and spirits. Am an avid cook and foodie.
Super geek and life long nerd.
A note about masculinity: There was a time, many moons ago, when masculinity was actually the opposite of toxic. When it was not tied to gender exclusivity. When it meant being capable, and honest. Thinking before speaking or reacting. Caring for one’s inner and outer self. Understanding the nature of respect. Constantly learning, adapting, and discovering. Finding one’s ties to nature and the land, one’s ties to humanity and all peoples, and the independence of self reliance. When questions were asked, problems discussed, and rumination embraced. This seemingly lost trait is pursued by this man, in himself, and in others, regardless of gender identity or sexual preferences.
Absolutly looking for shared fun, kink, adventure, and excitement. I want to explore, expand, and evolve together.
?Not looking for bullshit or drama. There’s a surplus of that in the world as it is. I’m doing the work on me (therapy is a blessing). I’ll support the work on you.
?If you live in a bubble, treat yourself as an island, and don’t care to make room for others, I wish you the best, but it’s not here. We all have trauma and it’s not a competition. It’s about care, respect, and support.
?Neurodiverse is real. It is not an excuse for poor behavior.
My type?
If I were to turn it into a recipe it might be:
A healthy helping of Irene Adler, a dollop of Lisbeth Salander, a dash of Amy Farah Fowler. A heaping helping of Morticia and Lily (RAWR). Sprinkle with a bit of derring do, and garnish with some sub kinks and there you have it.
Intelligence is a must!! I crave conversation and learning. The brain IS a sexual organ.
My current goal: I am working toward a forever home in the mountains as a base of operations for many adventures. It will be a secluded, cozy hobbit hole with a workshop and grand kitchen, and room for some dogs, a cat, and down the road a horse, a cow, and a few sheep.
My golden rule: Respect, care (at ALL times), and communication in ALL THINGS.
A perfect day: Would begin with rumpling the sheets, breakfast and coffee and a shower together.
A trip somewhere new and fun. Could be a ghost town in the mountains, could be a museum, could be kayaking, could be window shopping.
A savory dinner out or in.
Cuddling, snogging, and sheet rumpling.
A personal insight: Having survived cancer, I fear little and hunger for a lot.
What I’m actually looking for: Someone who is willing to be wholly themselves and willing to give the same.
Someone open to adventure both indoors and out.
Someone who understands why connection makes a difference.
Someone who can laugh DURING bedroom fun AND talk after about everything.
Head of a punk rock poet, rockin the Dad bod in boots and kilt. Heart of a romantic. Soul of a cowboy. A backpack full of wanderlust, pockets full of dreams, and a field book with a plan.
I am a natural caregiver at heart. A protector. A sensualist. A pleasurer. There is no greater, more sublime, more satisfying joy, than giving you what you need from the Top. I get off only when you do.
Not looking for the kind of mind games that hurt but always up for mind games that make one laugh, gasp, and leave you in breathless wonder.
A mountain boy born and bred in the Boulder Free Zone, but with a taste for the finer things. Ever have butterflied lobster tails on a bed of lemon and dill pasta cooked for you on a Coleman stove above timberline with a nice white wine?
Have my own very successful career of twenty five plus years as a Learning & Development tech leader that I love but I work to live, not live to work. ?Not a sugar daddy
An avid DIY enthusiast, woodworker, leather crafter, doodler, and maker.
I garden, brew beer, mead, and spirits. Am an avid cook and foodie.
Super geek and life long nerd.
A note about masculinity: There was a time, many moons ago, when masculinity was actually the opposite of toxic. When it was not tied to gender exclusivity. When it meant being capable, and honest. Thinking before speaking or reacting. Caring for one’s inner and outer self. Understanding the nature of respect. Constantly learning, adapting, and discovering. Finding one’s ties to nature and the land, one’s ties to humanity and all peoples, and the independence of self reliance. When questions were asked, problems discussed, and rumination embraced. This seemingly lost trait is pursued by this man, in himself, and in others, regardless of gender identity or sexual preferences.
Absolutly looking for shared fun, kink, adventure, and excitement. I want to explore, expand, and evolve together.
?Not looking for bullshit or drama. There’s a surplus of that in the world as it is. I’m doing the work on me (therapy is a blessing). I’ll support the work on you.
?If you live in a bubble, treat yourself as an island, and don’t care to make room for others, I wish you the best, but it’s not here. We all have trauma and it’s not a competition. It’s about care, respect, and support.
?Neurodiverse is real. It is not an excuse for poor behavior.
My type?
If I were to turn it into a recipe it might be:
A healthy helping of Irene Adler, a dollop of Lisbeth Salander, a dash of Amy Farah Fowler. A heaping helping of Morticia and Lily (RAWR). Sprinkle with a bit of derring do, and garnish with some sub kinks and there you have it.
Intelligence is a must!! I crave conversation and learning. The brain IS a sexual organ.
My current goal: I am working toward a forever home in the mountains as a base of operations for many adventures. It will be a secluded, cozy hobbit hole with a workshop and grand kitchen, and room for some dogs, a cat, and down the road a horse, a cow, and a few sheep.
My golden rule: Respect, care (at ALL times), and communication in ALL THINGS.
A perfect day: Would begin with rumpling the sheets, breakfast and coffee and a shower together.
A trip somewhere new and fun. Could be a ghost town in the mountains, could be a museum, could be kayaking, could be window shopping.
A savory dinner out or in.
Cuddling, snogging, and sheet rumpling.
A personal insight: Having survived cancer, I fear little and hunger for a lot.
What I’m actually looking for: Someone who is willing to be wholly themselves and willing to give the same.
Someone open to adventure both indoors and out.
Someone who understands why connection makes a difference.
Someone who can laugh DURING bedroom fun AND talk after about everything.
BDSM and me
No Dom/sub dynamic can be codified by labels alone without a) clear communication, b)care, c)respect. That being said I lean in to preferring the Service/Sensual Dom role. I prefer a sub who is independent, confident, driven and self aware. Any dynamic must be a true exchange.
Interests include, impact play, orgasm control, bondage, breath play, touch, cigar play, service, boot black, aftercare
Interests include, impact play, orgasm control, bondage, breath play, touch, cigar play, service, boot black, aftercare
Limits
Age play, urine, excrement
Update date
Apr 14, 2024
Member since
Apr 14, 2024
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