jellalfernandes

Male

I been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years, I have had both real life and online dynamics during that time. I have returned after allowing myself time to reflect, on what I want for myself, but more importantly, to find someone with shared common interests. My hiatus could have gone two ways, firstly leave it all behind, and just walk away, or seek out those like minded female submissives, who want to have the same set of standards, as those they seek Dominance from. I am again looking for a friend first, and foremost. Someone who wants to build on a foundation of shared trust and respect, which I hold as the pillars of my being, from day one. In return I will be fiercely loyal, committed to giving to that submissive my all, communicating on a daily basis, to check on that person’s mental, and physical well-being. After all, a Dominant is empowered by a submissive, who gives their power of submission, its not a given right. A dynamic is 50/50, one has to allow yourself to nuture as well as learn, and admit when you have made mistakes.

If my profile is of interest, and you would like to know more.  Please feel free to message, and see if the planets do actually collide. I am only human. Yes I have made mistakes as everyone has in life, but with each mistake, I have grown stronger, more resiliant, and have learned many a hard lesson from them.

Ghosting is a hard limit. Take responsibility for your own actions, and learn from them. If things dont working out, be honest with them that way the other person knows, and they can move forward.  Otherwise, nothing illegal, scat, hard drugs, children or minors, and anything that may cause another human being, permanent harm, mentally or physically. Safe, Sane and Consensual Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

Happy New Year, to those that have shared in my journey, those that I have lost and to the others I have yet to make your acquaintance.
Merry Christmas, 2025
Today the 30th July  2025 is International friendship Day.
For all those that have loved my profile, then seek no form of communication, or interaction for however briefly. Remove yourselves from my profile. I neither have the time or the energy to entertain players on here anymore.
11/07/25.  At least one person removed themselves off my loved my profile list, one less disappointment. only to come back, why ?
I am Me. I am not okay. I am not a victim, nor a survivor. I am the Master of my own pain and self worth. I am thankful to those who have taught me certain lessons in life, I thank you for what you taught me, and what to avoid at all costs. Choose one, live by it, give it a chance. Let it be part of your journey. You cannot go back, just always moving forward. Learn from your choices, if you can, but always keep moving forward, and giving it your all. Just to make things simple to those males that read my profile, I am only into females.

Jun 21, 2024