I say a lot here so I dont have to repeat it and we can get past some of the vetting.
Im a 50+, older submissive male and creative professional, with a backbone and a naturally sweet, kind soul. I've been single and intimate-less for many years and matured in life to be a much better fit for a partner emotionally and mentally than I have ever been. Ive taken some hard knocks and removed obstacles. In a sense, I have a fresh perspective and new start ahead of me.
No not out of prison.
Just less shit. Have gone through painful losses, lies, bitterness, unfairness, and my own disgruntled issues such as anger and being way too hard on myself and others.
Im now more refined and more dignified.
More of a consistent gentleman.
Although I have my interests, I'm not in any rush but I am growing and moving in a better direction and my checkered past has a lot to do with it. I wasnt a bad boy or anything, just not honest with myself and missed out on a lot. I've also learned I'm more about the minset and emotional stability of a partner than just physical attraction. Having said that, You should however be HWP and healthy with great hygiene and self care habits. I'm tall and lean but still muscular.
Though Im straight, im not set on just female (TS, Dominant CD, maybe Male) But...I only seek ONE PERSON. I valued a good soul and someone who enjoys talking about personal and intellectual things.
I'm very kinky and genuinely interesting in exploring new and mutual "must have" kinks and fetishes. Especially yours. I tend to adapt to the person I'm with. Kinks choose us and I tend to enmesh with my partner in this respect. *Bonus if you enjoy transforming a man and clothing selection for your enjoyment. If you are turned on and think of bondage ideas or want your sub in bondage anytime, if you are into: punishing/rewarding, tasking, exposing vulnerabilities, stretching boundaries, altering perception, TPE, sensory deprivation, impact play, marking, being playfully clever, sternly manipulating, teasing, building up tension, mentally controlling, exploring various submissive roles for your sub, being served and recognized as a superior without fuss, not wanting just a kink mate but something long term as a DLR (Dominant Led Relationship) Ds...
Then please connect.
If you still get teary-eyed, joyful, and love to be comforted and cared for romantically and enjoy doing the same in return; all the while attracted to emotions and feelings yet still want strict rules in place...If you want to share cooking, errands, chores (if you cant let go of them) or if you demand I do the cooking and housework and we find strengths that fit our role to help one another in other ways...If you are turned on by a sense of humor and have one yourself and don't completely rule out a vanilla life and not clingy to friendships or family...I'm interested.
Lying. Stealing. Cheating. Blatant rudeness. Polygamy. Blood. Scat. Animals. Children. ABL. Being ignored/no closure. Ridicule out of play. Illegal activities. No smoking tobacco. Unhealthy eating. Grieving when we meet. Disease. Findom. Financial extortion.
Best if we continue a path of non-drinking and non smoking. Occassional weed and wine is tolerable.
I seek a dominant partner (gender is not as important as much as the natural dominance you possess, though I do prefer women). What I dont want are dramatics. You are someone close to my age + or - 15 years, easy on the eyes, would enjoy sharing intelligent and witty conversations and creative interests and common professions so we could co-create together, and you want to learn about each other as we venture onward.
Bonus if you are more of a private homebody type who nests with moments out but not for too long, not a social butterfly, and enjoy your creature comforts and making the best of what you got. You are not glued to your phone or addicted to attention or approval of others but do enjoy being appreciated, complimented, and doted after. You can leave the past in the past.