I'm an older, gentler dominant with some experience. I work in software (OK, I own the company), like horses and dogs, can cook reasonably well and hate football.
I'm in an open marriage, and have the use of the guest bedroom, complete with interesting toybox, for sessions.
For me bondage is about enhancing foreplay. I enjoy putting a sub in gentle restraint so that she can't escape the pleasure of being stimulated.
After a lifetime working with electronics I can do some very interesting things in the electrical play line.
1) No same sex, just doesn't work for me.
2) Blood stays on the inside.
3) Body fluids aren't put in the wrong place.
4) No causing injury.
5) Safewords respected.
Pain is restrcted to "that was great even if it hurt a bit", I don't do flogging though I may spank in play.
Saturday, February 3, 2018