Ihavetobasub​{UNOWNED}
sub female

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North Carolina, United States
Relationship status
Single
About me
I am an all inclusive submissive that is like Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde. I desire the best of both worlds, vanilla and kink. I am open to all Races. I am a Christian and sometimes it's very hard to find a Christian Dominant or Christian Master as well. I need my : Dominant/Master, lover, partner, Christian leader, soulmate, lover, and happily ever after. So that to me is all inclusive I'm looking for it all. I am also not relocatable outside of NC due to family here in North Carolina. I know that's a tall order but I'd like to get that out there in front. I do know however that some males regardless of what their identity is don't read past the first two lines. Their loss.
BDSM and me
I thrive on: MENTAL DOMINATION ( I want to feel you inside my head 100% ), pleasing/serving at all costs, light impact on my butt only,  play, obedience training, collar lead and leash (primarily during sex and obedience training), deep throating, eating from a dog bowl occasionally, light bondage, sensory deprivation, orgasm control, edging, obedience, and loving and treasuring one another unconditionally!! Light to medium impact only as I have been abused in the past in this area. I feel that I have a lot to bring to the table and are looking for the same in a partner. I need my dominant to be able to do the work and not just have a free ride. What this means to me is that I need my partner to: structure me, guide me, lead me, teach me, train me, take me, mold me, shape me, into being the very best submissive in the world for him and making me the best me for me andvthe best us.  I am "NOT" a brat. I think that is so disrespectful from a submissive partner to a dominant partner and very unappealing. I am looking for my forever dominant. I am not looking for friends with benefits or weekend Adventures or one night stands. I'm looking for a real life and for life. I want to feel loved, valid, worthy, happy, and pleased. Both the submissive and the dominant need to be able to fulfill each other within their position. And above all I need and want to know that I am your, "GOOD GIRL." Yes I am fine with light and some medium impact play. But don't get me wrong I am not into verbal degradation, humiliation, being cussed at, or treated like an "object", an "it", or "sub human." I am a highly pleasing, serving, devoted, committed, loving, and obedient submissive. I am looking for a D/M MALE that will LOVE me and respect me in return for my gift of s.u.b.m.i.s.s.i.o.n.... to him. LOVE AND BE LOVE, TREASURE AND BE TREASURED!!!
Limits
No poly, no naked pics/live streaming, smokers, drug addicts, weed, I am not relocatable to the family reasons, no choking around the neck or bag asphyxiation over my head, no afixation bed, no log fire pit, no fisting, scarring, needles, blood, excessive marking, severe bruising, minors, voyeurism, electrocution, knives, guns, physical abuse, humiliation, degradation. I am NOT a Finsub. Please understand the concept of love and be loved treasure and be treasured unconditionally.
What's new
Of late i have decided that it is time to actually put serious work into selling the house and getting out of my home loan and buying something  smaller. Then finding a Dom within 2 hrs of me. And going into possible ownership as a submissive  only not a slave. I lice in Greensboro, NC. And it myst be no more than 1 1/2 hours from there.
Update date
Nov 14, 2024
Member since
Aug 10, 2024
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