Hi! I'm looking for kinky local friends for post-pandemic meets. Just friends, a relationship, play, partner, whatever works for everyone. I'm very comfortable and experienced with polyamorous relationships and multiple relationship dynamics, so there are many possibilities.
If you are experienced, I won't treat you like a noob. I believe you will find me eager to learn your style and, if we are a match, I would work hard to be what you need. In some ways I am a service top. I stress trust and communications.
If you are new to all this and think that you would like to gain some experience, I can teach you about the lifestyle and help you experience various kinks so you know what you like, and what you don't like. I WiLL teach you how to play safe in the community. I've been around long enough to have seen the good, bad, and the ugly. I play safe, sane, and consensual all the way.
My kinks include professional training and experience in rope play (shibari, including suspension, skill level: medium), flogging (expert), canes/whips/etc., spanking, pure bondage, hypnotism (not an expert, but I know enough to be safe), wax play (expert), needle/knife play (not for everyone but I'm trained and safe), medical play (same), etc.
I've been a Master, Dominant, Sadist, Daddy, Mentor, and/or Protector to some wonderful people. You can talk with them to verify if you like.
I have been polyamorous with some people, and in a poly family for a while.
I am always learning, and always willing to admit my mistakes and when I'm wrong. Being a Dominant doesn't mean that I don't have to say I'm sorry. My default mode is 'gentleman'.
If this sounds at all interesting to you, I would love to chat sometime.
Take care,
Cazar
I like most forms of BDSM play, especially sadomasochistic play. (Bondage, floggings, spankings, rough-body play, clothespins, electrical play, wax play, etc.) At my core, I am an empathic dominant sadist.
I like bringing new people into the scene. Teaching them how to play safe, showing by example how an experienced, trustworthy Dominant should behave, and helping them discover and map their kinks, limits, and squicks.
A high pain threshold isn't required. My thrill is in getting the sub into subspace and close to their limits--wherever they are on the spectrum. So. Much. Fun!
I'm not into felonies, bestiality, permanent injury to mind or body, or anything non-consensual. Edge-play is fine as long as we deem the risks to be acceptable. I understand risk-management and would discuss, beforehand, anything that I thought needed additional consent.
I don't like secrets and lies. Discretion is necessary and understandable when dealing with anybody outside of the BDSM community, but with spouses or play-partners, I won't abide secrets or lies. All of my partners are "in the loop."
Well, I'll say one thing for Covid; it has taught me that I really don't enjoy online play. I enjoy chatting and meeting online, but all attempts to play online have been very underwhelming. So i'm just waiting for things to start back up IRL.